Page 58 - Stories from our Grandparents
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I                                                                                       “I
                                                                                                         have lived a hard life like many others my age,” said my 85-year-
                                                                                                         old grandfather, Wong Kwee Ngiam. You could see the pain
              came from Hainan Island,
                                                                                                         and the joy in his eyes as I probed into his life story. A man who
              China at the age of 1. I do
                                                                                                         survived World War Two and battled through hardships.
              not have many memorable
              experiences during my
            childhood as I was only 2 when         Mr Phang Cheng Hong                            Curiously, I asked my grandfather in the Hokkien dialect, “How was your
                                                                                                  childhood like?” His eyes opened wide and with a smile, he shared his
            World War 2 began. My family lived
            on Lavender Street at the time.        By Tan Qing Zhe                 BORN 1939      childhood days of enjoyment in Skudai, Johor. However, everything took a turn
                                                                                                  for the worst when he was nine when Japanese soldiers invaded Malaya.
                                                   Queenstown Secondary School
            I vividly remember the Japanese
            troops knocking on the door to                                                        He tells me stories of the countless days of running and hiding
            check if there was anyone staying    At first, I became a policeman but               in jungles, slaughtering pigs and sleeping in their abhorrent
            in the house. Everyone was very      I did not like my job as it was very             pens. Wherever the crowd went, he followed.
            terrified and dared not disobey      unsafe and my family supported
            the Japanese’s instructions. After   the idea of me changing my job.                       Their destination: Singapore. My great great grand uncle lived in
            Singapore gained independence,       Luckily, I had a friend who was a                     Singapore and thought here would be safe because of the British. My
            there were already public buses.     minister and could help me.                           grandfather then talked about how everyone tried to help each other.
                                                 I told him that I had wanted to be                    Miraculously, they made it to Singapore with no fatalities.
            In every bus, there would            a teacher instead of a policeman.
            be two persons on duty: the          He told me that he would consider                “How about the Occupation?” I asked. He recollected the times of starving,
                                                                                                  eating any food they could. My grandfather recalled his childhood was not a
                          driver and the         helping me. A few weeks later,                   merry one. But, he disclosed to me about how he learned mandarin during
                           person who            I was a Geography teacher.                       that time. Then, I asked about the pre-independence life, and he conveyed
                           issued the            I think that Singapore has grown                 about attending free night school and the political groups disagreeing with
                            bus tickets.         and developed a lot over the years.              the British as well as selling kuih on the street for money. He then attended
                                                                                                  day school and got an internship at a photo studio. He also told me
                            Sometimes,           However, everything in Singapore                 about his first-placed win in a South-East Asia photography competition
                                                 is very expensive, but as the saying
                             there would         goes:                                            in 1957. He then opened a photo studio in Tiong Bahru. After that, he
                             be another                比上不足                                       got married to my late grandmother. He turned to me and he told me,
                             person who                比下有余                                       “I do not want today’s young to experience what I had to, instead,
            would check whether you                                                               I want all of you to have a good and better life.”
            bought the correct tickets.          (to fall short of the best, but be                    I contemplated how incomparable the hardships young
                                                 better than the worst), so I still                     Singaporeans currently face against those faced by our pioneer
            Kampong days were fun. There         think that Singapore is not that                       generation. We truly are privileged as youths and we should
            would always be little kids running   bad. I would like to tell the next                      respect and help the pioneer generation as much as we can.
            around, playing games.               generation of Singaporeans to                            His legacy will always be with me.
                                                 learn Chinese well as China is
                                                 developing very fast and they
                                                 are the future.
                                                                                                                                             Mr Wong Kwee Ngiam
           58    Grandpa Stories                                                                                                                       Grandpa Stories  59  BORN 1934
                                                                                                                                             By Wong Zhi Yang, Nathaniel
                                                                                                                                             Temasek Polytechnic
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