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Frequently asked questions
How long does the Family Resolution process take?
Usually around three months (going through the Family Court takes much longer.)
Do I have to agree to mediation with my ex-partner?
Mediation requires all parties to attend, however, the delivery of this can vary. It is a voluntary service and any party can refuse to take part. In this case it’s likely an exemption will be issued.
If you have any concerns before or during the mediation process you should discuss this with your mediator. You will have an opportunity to meet with them individually and they will make sure you are comfortable with the process and that it’s fair for everybody.
What do we decide on in mediation?
The mediator will work with you on the issues you wish to discuss. They will help you draw up a plan which may include:
g where the children live
g contact and changeover arrangements
g how to manage special occasions like birthdays and other celebrations g childcare and holiday arrangements
g which schools the children attend
g health and medical treatment
g religious and cultural matters
g communication and co-parenting strategies.
Will the mediator force me to agree to something I don’t want?
The mediator is there to help parties constructively listen to each other, share views and ask questions. They can help you reach an agreement together but will not make decisions for you. They will help you focus on the needs of your children so that you can make good decisions about your children’s future. The mediator will not try to get you and your partner back together again, or make judgements about who is right or wrong.
What happens if we don’t agree after mediation?
You can either try to reach a private agreement or apply to the Family Court for a judge’s decision. The mediator will give you a form that shows you attended mediation and the results of your mediation. You will need this form to show the court that you have attended mediation and what the outcome was.
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