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What Do Empowerment Self-Defense Students Learn?












             For some people, “self-defense” brings to mind images of Bruce Lee kicking and punching (and spinning and
             flying!) to get out of a dangerous situation. No wonder we can feel intimidated!

             By contrast, Empowerment Self-Defense (ESD) is designed for everyone. The skills are accessible to people of
             all abilities, and they’re designed to keep us safe in everyday situations, not just in violent ones. Consider some of
             the many ways our safety and wellbeing may be threatened – harassment, bullying, boundary violations, unwanted
             attention, sexual coercion, emotional abuse, physical assault.

             ESD students learn a range of skills and strategies — giving them a range of options — to successfully deal with
             different kinds of unwanted situations. Students are empowered to choose for themselves what actions will be best
             for them in whatever situation they face. Students take home many tools from ESD classes including:

             Knowledge
             Accurate information increases our understanding of violence and our ability to assess safety risks and possible
             actions. In ESD classes, we address threats to personal safety, the many forms of violence in our culture, and how
             gender socialization, racism and classism impact safety. Common myths and misperceptions about violence and
             perpetrators are also dispelled using current research and statistics.

             Awareness Skills
             In addition to being mindful of the external environment and assessing the situation they are in, ESD students learn
             to understand and trust their intuitive feelings. Reading body language, recognizing when boundaries are being
             ignored or challenged, and projecting confidence are some of the skills students learn to use in their daily lives to
             help stay safe and in control.

             Voice
             One of the most powerful and versatile safety tools we have is our voice. In ESD classes, students learn to use
             their voices to stop or interrupt unwanted and potentially dangerous behavior. Skills include de-escalation, setting
             and defending boundaries, speaking assertively and YELLING. Students also use their voices to add power to their
             physical techniques.

             Physical Skills
             ESD teaches fighting as a last resort. The goal is to respond with sufficient force to get away to safety (rather
             than prolonging the fight to win or to punish). Students learn simple but effective physical skills, targeting the most
             vulnerable points on an assailant’s body. Unlike martial arts techniques, these skills do not require years of study
             and practice; instead, they are fairly easy to learn in a limited amount of time.

             Resources for Healing and Support
             ESD instructors can be a valuable source of information and referral to those seeking help with personal safety
             and trauma recovery. Students are provided current information about organizations and services available in their
             local communities such as hotlines, crisis centers and shelters.

             Mona MacDonald
             Certified Self-Defense Instructor/Lioness Martial Arts
             www.lionessmartialarts.com

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