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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                              Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara                                                            ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
                                      Kelal Aleph                                                                       ןישע - םייחה רוקמ


             badly about someone, as was explained in the Introduction. (Please                    רוּסִּאבּ ןיִלָשׁכנ וּיהי םִא ,םוֹקמ לכִּמ ,)'א ףיִעס( ל"נּה ןמיִסּבּ
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             see the Introduction).
                                                                                                   םה ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ תוּליִכרְוּ ערָה ןוֹשׁל וֹא לוּתִּהו קוֹחְשׂ
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 299                                                        וֹרוּסִּאֵמ דבל ,"וּארָיִתּ יִשׁדּקְִמ"דּ הֵשֲׂע תוצִמ לע םירִבוֹע
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                                                                                                   ןטקָ ףיִעס א"נק ןמיִסבּ( "םהרָבא ןגמּ"ה בַתכֶּשׁ וֹמכוּ ,יִמצעה
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             K1/3.    All    of  these  laws  are  relevant  even  if  the  speaker’s
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             remarks were made in casual passing.  But heaven forbid, if this                      ארָוֹמ לע ןירִהזמ םניא םיִמכח ידֵיִמלַתּה )יִכו( וּטּאדּ ,)'ב
             person constantly talks about other people, like those people who                     ,קחֹדִּמ  היִּתְשׁוּ  הליִכא  אלּא  ,םהל  רַתּה  אלֹו  ,שׁדּקְִמּה
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             routinely sit together (5) and talk about so-and-so’s doings or so-
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             and-so’s ancestors doings or I heard “xyz” about so and so… and                       לֹכאל וּכרְטצי םִא ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ םידְִמוֹל םהֶשׁ ךְוֹתִּמ
             “xyz”  has  a  disparaging  edge,  Chachamim  identify  these  people                 ,םדוּמִּלִּמ הז ידֵי לע וּלְטּבְּתי ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבל ץוּח תוֹתְּשִׁלו
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             as  Ba’alei  Lashon  Hara,  people  who  habitually  speak  Lashon
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             Hara,  and  their  punishment  is  exceedingly  more  horrible  than  a               םניאֶשׁ ,םירִוּבּדּ םַתס ןינִעלוּ ."םהרָבא ןגמּ"בּ םָשׁ ןיּע
             casual  speaker  of  Lashon  Hara  because  these  habitual  speakers                 המּבּ ןיּע ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ םיִמכח ידֵיִמלַתל ,תוּנציל לֶשׁ
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             of  Lashon  Hara  are  contemptuously  and  maliciously  violating
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             Hashem’s commandments.  They have rationalized what they are                                       .*'ג קלחבּ 'ה תרַזעבּ וּנבַתכֶּשׁ
             doing and now see it as being perfectly normal and permissible as I
             explained at the end of the Introduction (in the third curse \ “Arur”).
             Regarding these kinds of people, David HaMelech says in Tehilim
             (12:4) “Hashem will annihilate those smooth talkers, those  who                       אוּה תוּליִכרְה וֹא ערָה ןוֹשׁלה רפּסְמֶּשׁ יִמ לע םִאו )ח(
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             speak haughtily.”
      Mekor Hachayim  Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 299                                               ,"ןקֵז ינְפּ ָתּרְדַהו"דּ )ב"ל ט"י ארָקְיּו( הֵשֲׂע תוצִמ לע דוֹע
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                                                                                                   רבוֹע ,ץרֶאה םע ןקֵז אוּה וּלִּפא )ח( ,וינפבּ הזבּ וּהנּגו ,ןקֵז
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                                                                                                   וינפלדּ "הביֵשּׂ"אדּ ל"זרַ וּשׁרְפּ ָתּרְדַהו יאה ,םכח וּניה ארָקְדּ ןקֵזֶּשׁ ףאו(
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             K1/4. Chachamim Z”L have taught (6) that three sins in particular
             cause a person to be punished in his lifetime and to have no Olam
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                                                                                                   ךְרֶדֶבּ וֹל רבּדַל וּניהדּ ,םירִבדּ דוּבִּכּ אוּה רוּדִּהֶשׁ ,)יאקָ יֵמּנ
             Haba; these three sins are murder, adultery and other illicit relations
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                                                                                                   ןכו .וֹרדּהְמ וֹניא יאדּובּ ,וּהנּגְמֶּשׁ םוֹקמבוּ .תוּנדְאו דוֹבכּ
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             and idol-worship, but the sin of Lashon Hara is comparable to them
             all together in severity and in punishment.  Chazal bring proof to this
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             teaching from the writings of the Ketuvim.  The Rishonim explain
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                                                                                                   המכח הנקֶּשׁ הז :ןניִשׁרְדדְִכּ ,םכח וּניה ארָקְדּ ןקֵזדּ ,וֹז
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             that this statement refers to people who continually speak about                      הֵשֲׂע תוצִמ לע ןכּ םגּ רבוֹע ,ןקֵז וֹניא וּלִּפא ,םכח אוּה םִא
             others so easily, they are so used to it, that it becomes second nature
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             to  them  and  they  believe  they  are  doing  something  permissible.               ידֵיִמלַתּ הזּבְמדּ ,רוּמחה רוּסִּאל הז ידֵי לע אבּ םיִמעְפּ המּכֶּשּׁ המ דבלוּ(
             Because they’ve rationalized their speech to believe it is permissible                םִא הזבּ ךְירִאנ ןמּקַלוּ ,ןידּ יִפּ לע סרֵוֹקיִפּא ללכִבּ הזבּ סנכנֶּשׁ ,םיִמכח
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             (they will not even try to stop it and they continue speaking Lashon
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