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Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara     ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Aleph                        ןישע - םייחה רוקמ


 badly about someone, as was explained in the Introduction. (Please    רוּסִּאבּ ןיִלָשׁכנ וּיהי םִא ,םוֹקמ לכִּמ ,)'א ףיִעס( ל"נּה ןמיִסּבּ
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               םה ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ תוּליִכרְוּ ערָה ןוֹשׁל וֹא לוּתִּהו קוֹחְשׂ
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               ןטקָ ףיִעס א"נק ןמיִסבּ( "םהרָבא ןגמּ"ה בַתכֶּשׁ וֹמכוּ ,יִמצעה
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 remarks were made in casual passing.  But heaven forbid, if this    ארָוֹמ לע ןירִהזמ םניא םיִמכח ידֵיִמלַתּה )יִכו( וּטּאדּ ,)'ב
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 and-so’s ancestors doings or I heard “xyz” about so and so… and    לֹכאל וּכרְטצי םִא ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ םידְִמוֹל םהֶשׁ ךְוֹתִּמ
 “xyz”  has  a  disparaging  edge,  Chachamim  identify  these  people    ,םדוּמִּלִּמ הז ידֵי לע וּלְטּבְּתי ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבל ץוּח תוֹתְּשִׁלו
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 Hara,  and  their  punishment  is  exceedingly  more  horrible  than  a    םניאֶשׁ ,םירִוּבּדּ םַתס ןינִעלוּ ."םהרָבא ןגמּ"בּ םָשׁ ןיּע
 casual  speaker  of  Lashon  Hara  because  these  habitual  speakers    המּבּ ןיּע ,שׁרָדְִמּה תיבבּ םיִמכח ידֵיִמלַתל ,תוּנציל לֶשׁ
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 of  Lashon  Hara  are  contemptuously  and  maliciously  violating
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 doing and now see it as being perfectly normal and permissible as I
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 Regarding these kinds of people, David HaMelech says in Tehilim
 (12:4) “Hashem will annihilate those smooth talkers, those  who    אוּה תוּליִכרְה וֹא ערָה ןוֹשׁלה רפּסְמֶּשׁ יִמ לע םִאו )ח(
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               רבוֹע ,ץרֶאה םע ןקֵז אוּה וּלִּפא )ח( ,וינפבּ הזבּ וּהנּגו ,ןקֵז
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               וינפלדּ "הביֵשּׂ"אדּ ל"זרַ וּשׁרְפּ ָתּרְדַהו יאה ,םכח וּניה ארָקְדּ ןקֵזֶּשׁ ףאו(
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               ךְרֶדֶבּ וֹל רבּדַל וּניהדּ ,םירִבדּ דוּבִּכּ אוּה רוּדִּהֶשׁ ,)יאקָ יֵמּנ
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               ןכו .וֹרדּהְמ וֹניא יאדּובּ ,וּהנּגְמֶּשׁ םוֹקמבוּ .תוּנדְאו דוֹבכּ
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 and idol-worship, but the sin of Lashon Hara is comparable to them
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 that this statement refers to people who continually speak about    הֵשֲׂע תוצִמ לע ןכּ םגּ רבוֹע ,ןקֵז וֹניא וּלִּפא ,םכח אוּה םִא
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 to  them  and  they  believe  they  are  doing  something  permissible.      ידֵיִמלַתּ הזּבְמדּ ,רוּמחה רוּסִּאל הז ידֵי לע אבּ םיִמעְפּ המּכֶּשּׁ המ דבלוּ(
 Because they’ve rationalized their speech to believe it is permissible    םִא הזבּ ךְירִאנ ןמּקַלוּ ,ןידּ יִפּ לע סרֵוֹקיִפּא ללכִבּ הזבּ סנכנֶּשׁ ,םיִמכח
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 (they will not even try to stop it and they continue speaking Lashon
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