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A QUICK LOOK AT PRIN
Twos want to be needed and appreciated. They seek to avoid being rejected and unappreciated.
Twos are helpers—giving and caring people who are concerned for other peoples’ well-being. They are nurturing and supportive and always available to give sound advice. They go out of their way to help people out, give their support and encouragement, offer advice and be a good listener. Twos will go the extra mile to please others, often at the cost of taking care of self. Twos give and are proud of it, but strings
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canbeattached.Sometimestheycanmakepeoplefeelguiltyand manipulated,especiallywhentheiradvicewasn’taskedfor,butthey expectittobefollowed.
Best Self: helpful, empathetic, good listener, friendly, praising, advising
Shadow: conditional giving, possessive, intrusive, controlling, complaining
WHAT TRIGGERS A 2’s SHADOW
§ Notfeelingsufficientlyvaluedorappreciated
§ Whentheirsuggestionsoropinionsandadviceareignoredor
unwanted
§ Beingtreatedasunimportant,asifyouropinionorinputdoesn’t
count
§ Feelingneglected,uninformedorleftoutoftheloop
§ Feelingrejected,excludedornotneeded
§ Whenpeopledon’tdowhattheyshould
§ Beingcriticized
§ Peoplewhowithdrawratherthansharefeelings § Self-centeredorcontrollingpeople
§ Notbeingallowedtoexpresstheirfeelings
§ Moody,selfishorunfriendlypeople
§ Insensitivepeople
§ Peoplewhomakedecisionswithoutyourinput § Having too much work dumped on me
§ Notenoughtimefortheirownneeds
§ Notbeinggivenenoughattention
§ Peoplewhodon’twanttodiscussproblems § Feelingtakenadvantageof
§ Poorlisteners
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