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Lesson  17

               The Princess Syndrome



                                                   There is a strange kind of syndrome that some men and

                                           women  are  afflicted  with.  It’s  symptoms  include  hallucinations
                                           and illusions of grandeur: hallucinations that someone is Princess

                                           Cinderella or Prince Charming, and delusions that someone is

                                           royalty with scores of slaves at ones disposal. Psychoanalytically,
                                           this ailment isn’t repugnant, only pitiful, but culturally it’s frowned

                                           upon and needing immediate shock therapy of reality. The Ko-
                                           rean language have words to describe men and women having

               these symptoms in it’s mild forms: congju pyang for females and wang japyong for males,
               the equivalent of The Cinderella and The Prince Charming. Needless to say, these char-

               acters aren’t deranged: in fact, they are humorously alluded to with such appellations, not

               branded as mental cases, although some people with strong ideas about it would argue oth-
               erwise. The congju pyang is normally characterized by her confidence verging on excessive

               self-importance. Whether that confidence (looks, importance, social status) is justified or
               not seems not to matter. Thus when any woman demands attention from others, especially

               from males, or praises her qualities in such statements as “I’m so beautiful”, or “men cant
               resist my charms”, then she is branded a congju pyang by others, whether humorously or

               seriously. The same goes true for the narcissist male. If he feels or acts exaggeratedly self-
               important, by virtue of his looks, whether justifiably or not, then he is a wang japyong.” I’m so

               handsome women’s feet turn to jelly when I smile at them,” people frown at him and exclaim,
               “Gosh, you are a wang japyong!”

                     Comprehension

               1. What are the characteristics of a congju pyang?
               2. What are the characteristics of a wang japyong?

                     Questions
               1. Who are the people you know that have the prince or princess syndrome?
               2. What do you think about people who have these kinds of syndrome?
                   What can you do about it?

                                                   Vocabulary & Expressions
                         syndrome: the pattern of symptoms that characterize or indicate a particular
                                            social condition
                         symptoms: A characteristic sign or indication of the existence of something else
                         repugnant: distasteful, objectionable, or offensive
                         appellations: A name, title, or designation
                         narcissist: inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity
                         exaggeratedly: To represent as greater than is actually the case; overstate
                         illusions: something that deceives by producing a false or misleading impression
                                         of reality



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