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                                                 t     he Sil                        ence                                            It’s crucial for parents, educators, and other trusted adults
                                                                                                                                     to be able to recognise signs of bullying and related mental
                                                                                                                                     health challenges in children and adolescents. Common
                                                                                                                                     indicators that a young person may be struggling include:


                                                                                                                                     •  Sudden outbursts of anger or crying for no clear reason
                                                        ullying in schools is a critical issue with significant
                                                                                                                                        Expressions of hopelessness or feelings of emptiness.
                                                        mental health consequences for victims and per-
                                                                                                                                     •  Overreactions of anger or frustration that seem out of
                                                 Bpetrators alike. Research shows that children who
                                                                                                                                        proportion to the situation
                                                 experience bullying are more likely to develop depres-
                                                                                                                                     •  A noticeable loss of interest in activities that once-
                                                 sion, often displayed through sleep disturbances, ap-
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                                                 thoughts. Anxiety is also common, as victims live in con-                           •  Feelings of low self-esteem, guilt, or worthlessness
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                                                 stant fear, making it difficult to form meaningful relation-
                                                                                                                                     •  A sudden, unexplained avoidance of school or activities
                                                 ships or focus on academics.
                                                                                                                                        they previously enjoyed


                                                 Academically, bullying hinders performance, causing
                                                                                                                                     If any of these signs are observed, it’s essential to offer sup-
                                                 students to disengage from studies or avoid school alto-                            port and open a dialogue with the young person, ensuring
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                                                 gether. Over time, this can impact their educational and
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          the Cycle                              Bullying deeply affects self-perception, leading to:                                                                         If a young person is being bullied, here’s how you
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                                                 Loss of Self-Confidence: Victims may avoid opportuni-
                                                 ties, feeling inadequate.
                                                                                                                                                                              can help:
                                                 Increased Self-Criticism: Negative statements from                                                                           •  Listen and Validate: Let them share their feelings
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                                                 bullies can lead to shame and self-doubt.
                                                                                                                                                                                  without judgment.
                                                 Social Isolation: Victims may withdraw, compounding                                  Be                                      •  Encourage Communication: Reassure them
                                                 their struggles.                                                                     Be                                          they can talk to you anytime.
                                                 Perpetrators are also at risk, often exhibiting antisocial                                                                    •  Involve Trusted Adults: Seek support from
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                                                 behaviours like aggression and substance misuse.                                                                                 teachers or school counsellors.
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                                                                                                                                                                               •  Teach Coping Skills: Help them develop healthy
                                                 As a school community, we all have a role to play in                              #Kind                                           ways to handle the emotional toll.
                                                 creating a safe and respectful environment. It’s up to                                                                        •  Promote Self-Esteem: Encourage activities that
                                                 us, teachers, students, and parents to ensure that ev-                                                                            boost their confidence.
                                                 ery student feels supported. By promoting kindness and                                                                        •  Take Action: Work with the school to address the
                                                 understanding, we can foster a culture where bullying is
                                                                                                                                                                                   bullying and ensure safety.
                                                 not tolerated, and everyone can thrive.
                                                                                                                                                                                Providing support helps the young person feel safe,
                                                                                                                                                                                valued, and empowered.
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