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the empty chair and move it. Rearrange                   grieving, consider joining a support
           your furniture and create a space just for               group. Most groups are listed by subject
           you. Exercise at a specific time each day.               in the phone directory or through
           Journal and make an entry daily. Daily                   churches, newspapers, hospitals, local
           patterns will help you develop your new                  health and social service agencies, the
           identity and find a new normality.                       Chamber of Commerce or your local
                                                                    funeral home. You can learn and grow in
           Find ways to remember the life of your                   common, yet different experiences. You
           loved one daily. You do not have to say                  do not have to travel this journey alone.
           goodbye. It is important to acknowledge                  Life can have meaning again.
           the change in your relationship. You do
           not stop loving someone just because
           they have died. You can still maintain                   FAQs
           a relationship in your heart. They are a
           part of who you are and who you are                      What purpose does a funeral serve?
           becoming.                                                It provides the family and friends with
                                                                    a caring and supportive environment
           Reach out to others                                      in which to share thoughts and feelings
           Learn to ask for what you need. Your                     about the death. The funeral becomes
           family and friends want to help, so let                  the first important step in the healing
           them know how. Turn to people you can                    process.
           trust for support and for information. Find
           people who will listen when you want                     What do funeral directors do?
           to talk. Leave the scrapbook or photo                    They are the pillars that support the
           album out on the coffee table so others                  survivors during one of their most difficult
           can remember and share memories with                     journeys through life. They care for the
           you.                                                     family and safeguard and care for the
                                                                    deceased person. They fulfill the wishes
           You may want to talk to others who are                   of the family by guiding them through and




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