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Combine generations
Many caregivers feel sandwiched between the generations, with parents, children, and even grandchildren vying for time and attention. When a parent needs to be driven to a doctor’s appointment, and a kid needs to be picked up from college, and a grandchild needs to be watched, what do you do to keep it all straight?
It’s okay to allow the different generations to overlap. Sometimes your child may have to accompany you to an appointment with your mother. That’s fine! Bring
a fun game or magazine for the waiting room that the two of them can enjoy together. If your parent is healthy enough, bring them to the track meet for an event or two. Allowing these activities to blend and merge will not only help you sustain a schedule; it will bring your family together.
Get counseling
Taking care of aging parents can bring up a lot of emotions: grief, guilt, resentment, lack of confidence. If you already deal with depression or anxiety, the physical and emotional stress of caregiving may make you feel like you’re “going over the edge.” seeing a counselor to help you process your emotions and reactions to life’s stresses can give you the strength and wisdom to keep going, ready to face the challenges ahead.
Take advantage of respite care at Ashbridge
Ashbridge Senior Living is delighted to offer a respite care program that includes short-term professional care designed to give the primary caregiver a break from caregiving activities. Through private pay, you can rely on our specially trained staff to provide temporary care for your loved one the way that makes the most sense for you and your family. It’s a great way to experience our exceptional lifestyle described as the Ashbridge Difference! Respite Care rooms at Ashbridge Senior Living are fully furnished studio apartments with a per day price and
no minimum stay. Your loved one will enjoy all of the amenities and services Ashbridge provides while they stay, providing you with the peace of mind to break away for a period of time and re-energize.
Know when to say when
If you’re reaching a point where even the most balanced of schedules leaves
you feeling overwhelmed, it may be time to consider receiving additional care for your parent, whether in the form of in-home care, assisted living, or memory care. When reviewing your options, remember that you’re not failing or giving up - you’re transitioning to the best form of care for everyone involved, always with your parent’s best interests in mind.
If you would like to talk through the challenges you are facing with managing the care of your loved one, we would be happy to help you find the path that is right for you and your family were you are at today. Schedule a tour of a Ashbridge location near you or contact us today to begin the conversation.