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Burial FAQs                                              opening and closing fee. Due to safety
                                                                  issues which arise around the use of
                                                                  machinery on cemetery property and
         What is opening and closing and why is                   the protection of other gravesites, the
         it so expensive?                                         actual opening and closing of the grave
         Opening and closing fees can include                     is conducted by cemetery grounds
         up to and beyond 50 separate services                    personnel only.
         provided by the cemetery. Typically,
         the  opening  and  closing  fee  includes                Why is having a place to visit so
         administration  and  permanent  record                   important?
         keeping        (determining        ownership,            To  remember  and  to  be  remembered
         obtaining permission and the completion                  are natural human needs. A permanent
         of other documentation which may                         memorial in a cemetery provides a focal
         be required, entering the interment                      point for remembrance and memorializing
         particulars in the interment register,                   the deceased. Throughout human history,
         maintaining all legal files); opening and                memorialization of the dead has been a
         closing the grave (locating the grave and                key component of almost every culture.
         laying out the boundaries, excavating and                Psychologists  say  that  remembrance
         filling the interment space); installation               practices, from the funeral or  memorial
         and removal of the lowering device;                      service to permanent memorialization,
         placement and removal of artificial grass                serve an important emotional function
         dressing and coco-matting at the grave                   for survivors by helping them bring
         site, leveling, tamping, re-grading and                  closure and allowing the healing process
         sodding the grave site and leveling and                  to begin. Providing a permanent resting
         re-sodding the grave if the earth settles.               place for the deceased is a  dignified
                                                                  treatment for a loved one’s mortal
         Can we dig our own grave to avoid the                    remains, which fulfills the natural human
         charge for opening and closing?                          desire for memorialization.
         The actual opening and closing of the
         grave is just one component of the                       What  happens when  a cemetery  runs


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