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Using the torque from his trapped arm, he managed to break his ulna and his radius. After his bones were
               disconnected, he fashioned a tourniquet from the tubing of his water bottle and cut off his circulation
               entirely. Then, he was able to use a cheap, dull, two-inch knife to cut through his skin and muscle, and a pair
               of pliers to cut through his tendons. He left his arteries for last, knowing that after he severed them, he
               wouldn’t have much time.

                                                                   “All the desires, joys, and euphoria of a future life
                                                                   came rushing into me,” Ralston stated at a press
                                                                   conference. “Maybe this is how I handled the pain.
                                                                   I was so happy to be taking action.” The entire
                                                                   process took an hour, during which Ralston lost 25
                                                                   percent of his blood volume. High on adrenaline
                                                                   and the sheer will to live, Ralston climbed out of
                                                                   the slot canyon, rappelled down a 65-foot sheer
                                                                   cliff, and hiked 6 of the 8 miles back to his car — all
                                                                   while severely dehydrated, continuously losing
                                                                   blood, and one-handed.

                                                                   Six miles into his hike, he stumbled upon a family
                                                                   from the Netherlands who had been hiking in the
                                                                   canyon. They gave him Oreos and water and
                                                                   quickly alerted the authorities. Canyonlands
                                                                   officials had been alerted that Ralston was missing
                                                                   and had been searching the area by helicopter —
                                                                   an effort that would have proved futile, as Ralston
                                                                   was trapped below the surface of the canyon. (Photo:
                                                                   pinterest.com )

                                                                   Four hours after amputating his arm, Ralston was
                                                                   rescued by medics. They believed that the timing
               could not have been more perfect. Had Ralston amputated his arm any sooner, he would have bled to death.
               Had he waited, he would have died in the canyon” (Serena, 2019).


                           The Lesson ...

               Motivation

                       “Aron Ralston’s thirst and hunger, his sense of belonging to others, and his brute will to live and
                       become a father highlight the force of motivation, which is a need or desire that energizes behavior
                       and directs it toward a goal. His intense emotional experiences of love and joy demonstrate the close
                       ties between our feelings, or emotions, and our motivated behaviors” (Myers, p. 236, 2009).

               Do our motivations come from nature or nurture? The answer is both. “Our motivations arise from the
               interplay between nature (the bodily “push”) and nurture (the “pulls” from our thought processes and
               culture). Let’s consider one perspective psychologists have used in an attempt to understand motivated
               behaviors” (Myers, p. 238, 2009). We’ll contrast this perspective with a Biblical understanding of motivation.

               A Hierarchy of Motives



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