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        the test. He felt the need to prove to himself that he was successful and good                                                   He heard a friendly familiar voice. It was of course Wizder the Observer who
        at math. His dad even promised him a cool off-road buggy trip if he got a good                                                   always appeared at the right moment – if you only get yourself to quiet down
        grade. But when he came back home, everything changed. He planned to play                                                        enough to see him.
        computer games for half an hour and then sit down to study.                                                                      Wizder continued, "This is probably the most unpleasant imp of them all."

        After half an hour had gone by, he said to himself – the test is in a week… and

        this game is so exiting and I'm on a roll today. I'll study tomorrow…                                                            "Right", said Jonathan feeling a little embarrassed. He was quite ashamed for
                                                                                                                                         being so startled.
        The next day was the same scenario all over again, and the day after that. He
        thought he heard a voice in the back of his head saying: "Go ride your new                                                       "I hate my Imp of Fear", he told Wizder, "but he always comes uninvited!
        bicycle with Noah and Jenna, it's much more fun than studying! Forget about                                                      Because of him I didn’t go on the yearly school trip and missed out on something
        this boring stuff! Think about what you'll be missing out if you sit alone in your                                               I love so much! I was afraid I'd miss my mother…

        room with your math books.                                                                                                       I was afraid I'd feel sick on the bus… because of him I never go to Tommy's house,

        " This voice sounded very friendly and Jonathan enjoyed listening to it. As the                                                  I'm afraid of his huge dog. No matter how many times Tommy explained that his
        day of test got closer, the voice in Jonathan's head got louder.                                                                 dog loves children, I still can't get over my fear.

        On Thursday there was a different voice that said: "Don’t sweat it. You'll fail
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        the test anyway, even if you study. Remember how ashamed you were when                                                           they even made up a name for me: 'Chicken
        your interim math grade was one of the lowest in class… playing is much                                                          Jonny'. It gets even worse at night, especially

        more fun.                                                                                                                        when mom and dad are not at home", he
                                                                                                                                         said and blushed with shame…
        This way, if you fail you'll know that it was because you didn’t study and not
        because you are stupid or something…"

        This voice was so convincing that Jonathan forgot everything he had promised                                                       Parents, Teachers and Therapists - Activities for Children
        himself about the test.                                                                                                            Following the Chapter:
                                                                                                                                           Have a conversation with your children about their fears
        The next morning, while brushing his teeth, he looked in the mirror and noticed                                                    and situations where the Imp of Fear comes to visit them.
        the star hanging from the string around his neck. The magical words etched on                                                      Alternatively, ask each child to write about it to themselves

        the star started sparkling                                                                                                         in a notebook.
                                                                                                                                           I recommend sharing your fears as adults or fears you had
            "WARRIOR OF LIGHT YOU HAVE THE MIGHT!"                                                                                         as children with them, in order to give them legitimacy to
                                                                                                                                           talk about fear and to see that it is natural and experienced
                                                                                                                                           by everyone.



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