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letter containing details of a child’s illness, there are two possible                                                                             #                                                                                    20818
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                                                                                                  1.  Halachically, parents are guardians and they may be permitted
                                                                                                    to waive their children’s rights on their behalf.
               45              PUBLIC CRITICISM OF A                                              2.  There is a difference between dictating a negative report about

                                                                                                    a fledgling physician and writing up a discharge letter for a sick
                              MEDICAL OMISSION
                                                                                                    child. In the first case, the secretary becomes aware of shame-
                                                                                                    ful deficiencies and character traits. Since there is no purpose
                                                                                                    in her knowing these things, the director should write these
                                                                                                    reports on his own. In the second case there is truthfully no
                                                                                                    shame involved if it was decreed on high that a child suffer from
                   1    Questions                                                                   a specific illness. This is something over which the child has no
                                                                                                    control. Therefore, it is not considered lashon hara even though
               I am a veteran accredited nurse and midwife in a hospital. The director              the knowledge will cause people to pity him.
               of the hospital appointed me to assist in supervising and improving             On the other hand, perhaps it can be considered lashon hara since
               the performance of the midwifery staff and the nurses.                          knowledge of his illness may affect his shidduchim. Some illnesses are
                  As part of my job, I am to conduct a monthly discussion with all             not considered to be a “serious blemish,” and one need not reveal them
               the nurses and midwives in the presence of the director of the depart-          when searching for a mate. If the secretary who wrote the summary
               ment. In order for the discussion to be to the point and beneficial,            reveals the child’s illness to a potential mate, thereby hurting him, this
               I need to review all the records, find deficiencies, point them out             is certainly viewed as lashon hara.
               publicly, and explain where the nurse made a mistake. Of course that               Nonetheless, I do not believe we have to consider such a remote
               nurse or midwife will be shamed publicly as a result. Am I permitted            possibility. The secretary will be afraid to reveal the child’s illness
               to do this since the discussion is purposeful? Perhaps I am obligated           because she may be fired. Therefore, I believe that it is permissible for
               to refuse, even if it means that I will be fired from my job, in order to       the secretary to type the summary of the child’s illness.
               refrain from embarrassing the midwife in public?                                   The exception would be a respectable and responsible person with
                  Below are three cases of nurses’ shortcomings that were found in             AIDS. As a responsible person, he will certainly be careful not to
               the medical records and would be (or were) discussed at the general             infect others. When he needs dental or blood work, he will inform
               meeting, without mentioning the names of the people involved so as              the nurse and the physician. As I have heard from physicians, if those
               not to speak lashon haa or embarrass anybody.                                   treating him are careful, there is no reason to stay away from him. But
                  An OCT is a test done by the midwife to determine the viability              generally, people would tend to distance themselves from him and not
               of the fetus during contractions. During the test, the woman is given           allow their children to learn in the same school as an infected child,
               medication by IV to bring on labor. Once, a midwife gave a pregnant             or to become friendly with him. Therefore, it is forbidden for a doctor
               woman the medication and then was called to another birthing wom-               to dictate a medical report on AIDS to the secretary, if the patient is
               an in a nearby room, forgetting the first woman momentarily. When               intelligent and responsible. The secretary may relay the information




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