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 by only giving over the information [regarding the error] to the doc-  Halachically, a child cannot waive his rights. How are we permitted
 tor. It is certainly our duty to put pressure on those who are involved   to dictate private matters to the secretary, who does not need to know
 in this matter so that they not make mistakes.  them for any reason?
 Therefore, although we have to avoid shaming someone, in this   This question applies not only to a hospital but to every office and
 case, if we refrain from doing so, there is a real possibility of danger   organization, whether it is a school or a factory. Furthermore, how is
 to the life of many other patients. This is the type of situation where   it permissible for dayanim to dictate a claimant’s claim to the secre-
 we say, “It is better to desecrate one Shabbos and not many.” For this   tary? [One cannot justify it by saying that since the the claims were
 reason, it is preferable, to begin with, to mention the name of the   said before three judges, there is no slander involved, for, as explained
 midwife involved, because this will certainly increase the pressure on   in maseches Bava Basra 39a, anything that was said before three is no
 the physicians and the nurses to concentrate on their actions so that   longer considered lashon hara. One cannot claim this here because
 no mishap occur because of them. We are required to do everything   the  Chafetz  Chayim wrote (Hilchos  Lashon Hara #2:5) that if the
 possible. This is not considered hishtadlus through sin, much like he   three were G-d-fearing men who are careful about the prohibitions
 who desecrates Shabbos for pikuach nefesh did not commit a sin, but   of slander, this matter should not be revealed. Proof for this is from
 rather performed a mitzvah.  a halachah regarding dayanim. A dayan is prohibited from saying: “I
 The midwife who is ashamed benefits as well because she will defi-  thought you were innocent, but the others said you were guilty, what
 nitely be more careful in the future. Thus we save her from erring in   could I have done…” (as explained in maseches Sanhedrin 29a), and
 matters of pikuach nefesh. One is permitted to rebuke one’s friend in   the Mishnah applied this rule even to a beis din of seven judges.]
 order to save him from sin.  Thus, in regard to our question, Is a director allowed to dictate
 Although the mitzvah of rebuking one’s fellow is on condition that   to his secretary a letter that includes negative information about a
 we “do not carry a sin upon him,” the Rambam writes (Hilchos Deos   physician?
 6:12) that in matters of Heaven, if he did not regret his actions, it is   In my humble opinion I would advise the department director to
 right to embarrass him in public and to shame him until he returns to   dictate the letters to the secretary without citing the names of the
 the right path. In our case, where this is the only way that the things   doctors involved, and then he can fill in the name of the physician in
 will really be heard, it is a fulfillment of the mitzvah of rebuking one’s   each letter by himself. This way, the secretary will not know to whom
 fellow, for it saves the midwife from future errors.  the letter refers and there will be no lashon haora involved.
 There is also a third thing. At the end of Sefer Chafetz Chaim, he   My father-in-law, Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv zt”l, agreed with me.
 quotes the responsum of the Chavos Yair, who wonders how we find   He added that if the secretary will understand on her own to whom
 in the Talmud expressions of contempt and spite that Talmudic Sages   the letter refers, the director is obligated to take time off from his
 said about each other. For example, Rebbi said about Levi, “It seems   work in the hospital, and write the letters himself. Just as he would
 to me that he has no brain in his skull.” And the Chavos Yair explains   take time off from work for some important reason or another, avoid-
 that at the end of the first chapter of maseches Sanhedrin (17b) it is   ing slander and gossip is an important goal of its own, justifying not
 mentioned that Levi was a disciple of Rebbi, and a teacher is allowed   dictating the letter to the secretary. One must be concerned the honor
 to rebuke his disciple with harsh words in order to stimulate him to   of another person, and refrain from revealing his shame before some-
 delve into a matter, and safeguard himself from error.   one who does not need to know of it.
 If these words were written in the Talmud, then certainly, Rebbi   The Tzitz Eliezer answered this question as follows: Since the peo-




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