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We also received an additional question on this topic:                       one would not exempt her, there would never be peace in the house.
                  In the healthcare clinic where I work, a 75-year-old female patient          The wife would refrain from working for fear of breaking anything,
               had an echocardiogram performed. The results indicated the possi-               and thus fights would erupt between husband and wife.
               bility of a blood clot in the upper left chamber [of the heart]. She               Similarly, we can say that if we nitpick about her food and her
               was advised to have another echocardiogram through the food pipe                habits, this would certainly lead to fights between them. Therefore,
               (trans-esophageal  echocardiogram)  to confirm the findings  of the             he is probably obligated to pay her medical expenses. However, if she
               regular echo. I consulted with cardiologists in the hospital where I            would demand that he treat her in a private hospital for her comfort,
               work. Their evaluation was that the quality of the echocardiogram in            we would need to redetermine whether he is obligated.
               the healthcare clinic was inferior to the one performed in the hospital.
               Therefore, their advice was that she first have a regular echocardio-                                      
               gram done in the hospital, because it might dispel the possibility of
               a blood clot indicated by the echo performed at the healthcare clinic.
                  There are several ways to clarify this issue:                                          If Someone Summoned an Ambulance to his
                  1.  Referral of the patient to the emergency room for an evaluation                    Friend’s House in order to take Revenge and
                    primarily in order to have an echocardiogram performed in the                        Frighten Him, How will he Atone for His Sin?
                    hospital.
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                  2.  Referral of the patient for an echocardiogram through the food
                    pipe, based on the echo performed in the healthcare clinic.
                                                                                                  1.  A man wanted to take revenge on Reuven and to frighten him.
                  3.  Advising the patient to pay privately for a regular echocardio-               He summoned a cardiac emergency ambulance to Reuven’s
                    gram in the hospital, because perhaps it will circumvent the                    house. The physicians and staff arrived in a rush, only to discov-
                    need for a trans-esophageal echocardiogram.
                                                                                                    er that Reuven had not summoned them at all. Someone had
                  I would like to know, am I permitted to “bypass” the clinic and                   played a prank on them and on Reuven. The man who sum-
               refer this patient for an echocardiogram in the hospital through the                 moned the ambulance now wants to repent. What should he
               emergency room?                                                                      do?

                                                                                                  2.  A man put a notice in the paper advertising a sale of cheap
                   1    AnsweR                                                                      clothing in his enemy’s home. People read the notice and began
                                                                                                    converging on the man’s house and pestering him. The victim of
               Let us first deal with the second question:
                  In Tractate Erchin (23a) it is related that Moshe ben Atzri was a                 the prank was disturbed and ashamed. How can the prankster
               guarantor for his son to pay his wife’s kesubah. His son, Rav Huna,                  atone for his sin?
               was a Talmudic scholar whose livelihood was hard-pressed. Abayah                   3.  Yet another story concerns a man who wanted to take revenge
               suggested that someone should advise Rav Huna to divorce his wife,                   on someone and ordered, in his name, meat and fish, cement
               so that she would claim her kesubah from her father-in-law, the guar-                blocks for building, carpenters, plumbers, etc... How does he
               antor. Afterwards, her husband would remarry her. Ultimately, this                   atone for his evil deeds?




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