Page 20 - 20818_park-c_efi
P. 20

20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 1 - A | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23 | SR:-- | Cyan
 20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 1 - A | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23 | SR:-- | Black
 #20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 1 - A | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23 | SR:-- | Yellow
 20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 1 - A | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23 | SR:-- | Magenta
 #
               bride is ill, yet he makes no effort to find out the cause of her illness,   1       YOM TOV, AND RESERVING AN APPOINTMENT FOR
               the physician should not volunteer the information.                                  DIALYSIS ON CHOL HAMOED .............................................335
                  We can  add  another condition not  mentioned by the  Chafetz                     Division of Shifts between Two Shabbos-Observant Physi-
               Chaim above: Sometimes as a result of the groom discovering his                      cians or Patients .........................................................................338
               bride’s illness and severing the connection to her, the bride could                  Priorities when Choosing Shifts for the Month of Tishrei ...341
               become physically endangered by her severe anguish. She may be                       Which is Preferable? Lighting the Chanukah Menorah or
               afraid that no one will want to marry her, and this fear and pain may                Reciting Hallel? ......................................................................... 343
               aggravate her illness. In this case, one should not tell the groom. The
               obligation to tell him stems from the precept “Do not stand idly by                  Lighting the Chanukah Menorah in a Public Hall during an
               the blood of your fellowman,” and this precept applies to the bride                  Award-distribution Ceremony ................................................344
               as well. If she is endangered or falls into a deep depression, which is
               considered a state of pikuach nefesh [then one would have violated the          111  CAN A PHYSICIAN WHO LIVES ABROAD TREAT
                                                                                                    PATIENTS IN ERETZ YISRAEL ON THE SECOND DAY OF
               precept while attempting to fulfill it.]                                             YOM TOV?   ................................................................................. 348
                  A similar case is judged in Responsa Iggros Moshe (Even Ha’ezer, Vol.
               1 #67): Is one allowed to marry a woman with kidney disease, whom               112  SHABBOS DESECRATION FOR A PATIENT THOUGHT
               the physicians prohibit at present from becoming pregnant? Marital                   TO BE IN DANGER, BY A PHYSICIAN WHO SAYS THERE
               relations would only be permitted if she were to take contraceptive                  IS NO DANGER ...........................................................................353
               pills or use a diaphragm. Rav Moshe’s response is that although some                 Why Members of the Sanhedrin Require Knowledge of Med-
               of the poskim permit the use of contraception if pregnancy would                     icine .............................................................................................361
               be dangerous to her, this would only apply if she is already married
               and her husband is already obligated to her, and divorce is difficult.          113  WHAT LEVEL OF DANGER IS A PERSON ALLOWED TO
               Marrying such a woman lechatchila, however, should be prohibited.                    UNDERTAKE IN ORDER TO SAVE ANOTHER PERSON’S
               However, if the pair have already formed an emotional bond, to the                   LIFE? ...............................................................................................369
               point that if the marriage is cancelled the sick woman will become
               endangered, then there is room to permit the marriage and for them              114  LEAVING A SAFE PLACE AT THE TIME OF AN ATTACK
               to use contraceptive means on condition that they not publicize the                  IN ORDER TO SAVE THE WOUNDED  ...............................381
               permissive ruling.                                                                   How Much is One Obligated to Endanger Oneself to Save the
                  One can learn from this for our case, that the couple should be                   Lives of Others? ........................................................................384
               prohibited from marrying each other so long as she is in treatment                   Burial of Corpses Left on the Battlefield in a Neighboring
               and medically prohibited from becoming pregnant. They should wait                    Field ............................................................................................ 389
               to get married until after the treatment.
                  We can also learn from the above that if calling off the wedding             115  SAVING THE WOUNDED FROM THE BATTLEFIELD
               would endanger the woman, one should consider carefully whether it                   WHEN THE CHANCE OF SAVING LIVES IS VERY SMALL .
               is permissible to tell the groom about her illness.                                  390
                  The most preferred way, in our case, is to advise the bride to speak              To Endanger Oneself to Save the Life of a Gentile .............. 397




        6                1  Medical-HalacHic Responsa of Rav ZilbeRstein                       Table of Contents  2                                            xiii
   15   16   17   18   19   20   21   22   23   24   25