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            Alysha Boekhoudt:

            “Life is a beautiful gift, use this opportunity to

            create the life you deserve”




                                                                                    in  psychology.  I  managed  to  fin-
                                                                                    ish  my  four-year  program  in  three
                                                                                    years. I fell in love with psychology
                                                                                    and was very determined and ex-
                                                                                    cited to learn new things”, she said.

                                                                                    Her  passion  for  psychology  took
                                                                                    her to FIU in Miami, Florida, where
                                                                                    she worked for three months in in-
                                                                                    tensive research with children with
                                                                                    ADHD.  After  graduation,  she  re-
                                                                                    turned  to  Aruba  and  completed
                                                                                    her Masters online in Industrial and
                                                                                    Organizational  Psychology.  “I  am
                                                                                    very lucky that I was able to find a
                                                                                    job that I love and that I am good  makes  her  happy,  and  dedicates
                                                                                    at”, she says.                      time to herself and her family.
                                                                                                                        For Wevolve’s future, she sees it as
                                                                                    Boekhoudt  emphasizes  that  her  a  bigger  company  having  more
                                                                                    inspiration  to  study  psychology,  psychologists working to help more
                                                                                    aside from wanting to help others  people in need. She adds that she
                                                                                    and not seeing people suffer, what  has a lot of interest in working with
                                                                                    inspired her the most was knowing  foundations  on  the  island,  and
                                                                                    the mind of a person, her interest  even  come  up  with  new  projects
                                                                                    in  seeing  how  each  mind  works  to help the people. “Plans for the
                                                                                    differently  and  what  makes  each  future there are many, but little by
                                                                                    person react different.             little  I  adapt  them  and  reach  my
                                                                                                                        goal.”
                                                                                    Even  after  more  than  three  years
                                                                                    working as a psychologist, she un-  Finalizing, Boekhoudt expresses her
                                                                                    derscores,  every  case  that  she  message for the community: “Life
                                                                                    takes  makes  her  more  and  more  is a beautiful gift that we received.
                                                                                    curious about the mind. “This is my  What’s more, it is a gift that few of
                                                                                    motivation to continue studying so  us  received.  Use  this  opportunity
            ORANJESTAD  –  Alysha  Boekhoudt  lot  of  symptoms  of  anxiety,  and  I  that I can understand and help my  to create the life you deserve. Be-
            is  a  young  psychologist,  who  decided to find help”, she says.      clients better.”                    lieve that you deserve a beautiful
            thanks  to  her  passion  for  helping                                                                      life because you really deserve it.
            others  and  learning  more  about  Boekhoudt says that she is the type  Boekhoudt  is  founder  of  Wevolve  There  are  times  when  things  can
            the human mind, recently founded  of person who always loved danc-      Coaching & Advisory Services. She  go in ways we do not want and we
            Wevolve Coaching & Advisory Ser-    ing  and  she  always  considered  explains  that  seeing  the  amount  can feel like we cannot handle it
            vices. Boekhoudt told our reporter  dance as a passion, it was even her  of  people  needing  help  was  one  on  our  own.  It’s  okay,  we  are  hu-
            about her childhood, her passion,  side job. “When I dance I feel like I  of  the  biggest  motivations  for  her  man.  Reach  out  to  your  loved
            inspiration,  and  how  all  this  influ-  can express all the emotions that I  to start her own practice. Despite  ones or contact a psychologist for
            enced  her  to  reach  where  she  is  don’t feel comfortable expressing.  this, she is a person with a lot of cre-  help.  Wevolve’s  doors  are  always
            now, and practice her dream pro-    What’s more, often times I experi-  ative  ideas  to  work  with  founda-  open.q
            fession.                            enced that my emotions come to  tions and the community of Aruba,
                                                the surface when I dance. I see this  and keeping this in mind, working
            Boekhoudt  says  that  she  comes  as a very beautiful expressive art.”  in  her  own  private  practice  facili-
            from a family of five, and thanks to                                    tates these possibilities.
            her family she could enjoy a beau-  Even  though  she  now  has  gradu-
            tiful childhood. Even though there  ated in psychology, she points out  “The main goal of Wevolve, as the
            is  much  she  does  not  remember,  that this does not mean that study-  name suggests, is for us to evolve
            she  says,  from  pictures  she  has  ing  was  something  she  always  together.  I  as  a  psychologist  will
            seen,  stories  she  has  heard,  and  liked. She says that when she was  provide the tools and together we
            the  relationships  within  her  fam-  younger  she  was  not  be  best  be-  will  reach  your  goals.  Aside  from
            ily,  she  feels  sure  that  despite  not  haved at school, which meant she  that,  Wevolve  is  not  focused  only
            having a lot of memories, her child-  was  held  back  a  year  and  even  on curative treatment but also pre-
            hood was beautiful.                 had to change schools.              ventive  treatment.  This  is  why  we
                                                                                    organize  a  lot  of  workshops  and
            She  explains  that  the  reason  she  After completing  high school, she  talks”, she indicated.
            doesn’t  remember  a  lot  of  her  didn’t attend school for two years.
            childhood is because she is a per-  Boekhoudt emphasized that during  Regarding  the  future,  Boekhoudt
            son  dealing  with  anxiety.  “As  far  this time, it came to a point where  pointed  out  that  normally  she
            as  I  can  remember,  I  have  dealt  she decided that she was ready to  doesn’t like to think so far, but if she
            with this my entire life. When I was  become and act like an adult. “At  has to imagine herself in ten years,
            young I was never diagnosed with  that  moment  I  decided  to  go  to  she sees a 38 year old woman with
            this,  but  by  studying  psychology  I  the United States, at Coastal Caro-  a  beautiful  and  happy  family.  A
            began  recognizing  that  I  have  a  lina  University  to  do  my  Bachelors  person who each day does what
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