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                            The evolution of the elderly women of Aruba                                                                                                                                         A look in the life of a teen



                   From living with kerosene light to choosing movies on Net-                                                                                                                                        With all of its highs and lows
                   flix. From walking with pargati, to speaking with grandchil-
                   dren face to face through a smartphone. This is what the                                                                                                                                                                                          To  me,  that’s  one  of  the  best  parts  about  being
                   grandmas of Aruba have experienced in a relatively short                                                                                                                                                                                          a teen. We have fairly simple responsibilities, and
                   period.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           though  school  can  be  hard  and  overwhelming,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     some of us are blessed to have friends around us
                   Today,  on  International  Women’s  Day  we  focus  on  the                                                                                                                                                                                       to make it easier to get by. We are also in the age
                   contribution of the generation of women whom we con-                                                                                                                                                                                              where  it’s  easier  and  more  accessible  to  go  out
                   sider today as ‘elderly people’. But the group is very di-                                                                                                                                                                                        and  try  new  things,  experience  something  new
                   verse, some with more challenges than others. But they all                                                                                                                                                                                        every  time  we  go  out  and  explore  who  we  are,
                   have something in common. They all experienced rapid                                                                                                                                                                                              even though we also face struggles as teens.
                   development,  of  culture,  perception,  among  other  be-
                   cause of tecnology which brings about lots of change.                                                                                                                                                                                             One of the things I personally struggle with the most
                   The generation of Aruban women who were born during                                                                                                                                                                                               is the pressure I feel from knowing that everything
                   and after Second World War saw their position in Aruba                                                                                                                                                                                            I  do  as  a  teen  will  affect  who  I  am  as  an  adult.
                   evolve  from  housekeepers  to  working  professionals.  A                                                                                                                                                                                        Every  decision  I  make,  will  ultimately  lead  to  my
                   large portion of this generation became the first group of                                                                                                                                                                                        future as an adult, and that can be very hard to
                   Aruban women who went to school and made a career                                                                                                                                                                                                 deal with as a teen. On top of that, we also face
                   for themselves, be it as teacher, office worker, sales staff.                                                                                                                                                                                     judgment from fellow teens, which causes us to feel
                   With this change, a lot in this generation also made the                                                                                                         It’s undeniably fun to be a teen. These are commonly seen as some of the best    pressure about the way we dress or the way look,
                   choice to have less children, but continued facing the res-                                                                                                      years in life, and it certainly is so for female teens.                          and even the way we act in public. We become
                   posibility of being the ones who had to raise their children,                                                                                                                                                                                     self conscious, which can lead to a multitude of
                   many times on their own. But it is from this group that the                                                                                                      These are the times in life for self development and self discovery. Not only is our   struggles, especially mentally and within ourselves.
                   activists were born for the bettering of society and equal                                                                                                       body growing, but so are our mind and our evolving personality, along with our
                   rights.                                                                                                                                                          tastes and views on the world.                                                   Despite all of that, I feel very lucky to be a female
                   The same way they saw technology develop, this group                                                                                                                                                                                              teen. There are so many women around me and in
                   of  Aruban  women  cu  are  now  enjoying  retirement  de-                                                                                                       As a teen that goes to school, my days are fairly the same. I wake up at 6:30 and   the world who are constantly setting an example
                   veloped  from  only  being  a  grandma  who  is  always  at                                                                                                      get ready to be at school by 7:45. One of the moments I look forward to the most   that  as  a  woman  there  is  nothing  we  can’t
                   home to take  care of her  grandchildren or even great-                                                                                                          every day, is the little moment I get to spend with my friends before I start the day   accomplish.  It  motivates  me  and  inspires  me  to
                   grandchildren. Those who reached advanced age with                                                                                                               at school. We meet up at our usual sitting spot, and talk about our previous day   grow into the best version of myself that I can be,
                   good health are ladies who are very conscious of where                                                                                                           as well as the long day we’ve got ahead. For the next few hours, my main focus   and one day walk among the wonderful women I
                   they come from and how much potential their daughters,                                                                                                           is surviving the day and getting home to my dogs and my TV shows.                look up to today.
                   granddaughters and great-granddaughters have, thanks
                   in part to their own effort. And they are women who still as-
                   pire to more knowledge, and as such, are even willing to                                                                                                                    A day in the life:
                   learn how to use a ‘smart phone’, because to stop grow-
                   ing is not an option for them.                                                                                                                    A day in the life of a female journalist
                   Illustrative Picture: Maria Francisca Jose-Pimentel, known
                   as ‘Chica’ (91) who for more than 28 years volunteered
                   at the Center of Activities for the Elderly, Kibrahacha. Mrs.                                                                                  From Monday to Friday, mi alarm  behind the computer and con-      To  give  commentary  and  infor-
                   Jose-Pimentel was not involved in the writing of this article.                                                                                 clock goes off at six in the morn-  tinue working.                 mation  regarding  everything
                                                                                                                                                                  ing  so  I  can  wake  up  and  pre-  Afternoons  are  the  most  impor-  that goes on the island is funda-
                                                                                                                                                                  pare for a new day. I check all  tant  part,  and  these  are  dedi-  mental  as  a  journalist.  We  must

                                                                  One Happy Day                                                                                   my social media while I prepare  cated to writing and producing  have respect for the truth, must
                                                                                                                                                                  my  morning  coffee  and  pan-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     chase objectivity – even though
                                                                                                                                                                                                    articles, checking on social me-
                                                                                                                                                                  cakes  for  my  daughter,  who  is  dia  if  there  are  any  items  that  sometimes  it  is  not  accesible
                                                                                                                                                                  almost five years old.            are more relevant, and also call  –  and  also  must  separate  that
                                                         How  are  you  doing?  My  name  is  we can give thanks to Father God                                                                      various  persons  involved  in  the  which  is  information  from  that
                                                         Railynn  Maria  Alvarado  Montilla,  I  for  our  food,  and  afterwards  we                             Around  7:30am,  I  leave  the  news,  including  politicians  and  which is opinion, because a jour-
                                                         am four years old, and I’m going to  eat.                                                                house so I can bring my daugh-    members of government.           nalist  must  always  have  critical
                                                         tell you a little bit about what I do                                                                    ter to school, while I listen to the  By the time the work day is over,  thinking.
                                                         in a day.                            After  school  we  go  home,  and                                   morning  news  on  the  radio.  As  which can be in the afternoon or  It  is  a  job  based  on  values  like
                                                                                              we’re  allowed  to  rest,  watch                                    a journalist, you must always be  at night, it’s time for me to dedi-  empathy, kindness, respect and
                                                         Every  morning  at  6am,  the  alarm  television  and  play.  Sometimes,  if                             up to date regarding news and  cate to my family and to myself.    sincerity  with  everyone,  even
                                                         goes  off  for  mommy  and  daddy  it’s  possible,  mommy  and  daddy                                    comments from every side.                                          though  there  is  always  criticism
                                                         get up to get ready to start the day.  take us to the park in the afternoon.                             Throughout  the  morning  I  dedi-  The time of a journalist is always  from all sides. To work as a jour-
                                                         I don’t like getting up so early, so I  We like that very very much. When                                cate  my  time  to  writing  articles  scarce, sometimes we must de-  nalist is not a simple job, likewise,
                                                         wrap myself in my bedcovers and  it  starts  getting  dark,  we  have  to                                about  Latin  America  and  the  liver  an  article  in  a  matter  of  not  everyone  who  has  a  cam-
                                                         keep sleeping a little longer. But by  start  preparing  for  bed.  First  we                            most  important  news  from  that  hours, because it can be a very  era  and  takes  up  to  the  streets
                                                         6:30am, mommy wakes me up and  eat, and then we shower, brush our                                        region.  Sometimes  I  also  have  important  topic  that  needs  to  knows what the job is all about.
                                                         daddy wakes my sibling up, so we  teeth  and  go  to  bed.  Sometimes                                    to attend a press conference so  be  published  right  away.  After  It’s not enough to talk and give
                                                         can start preparing to go to school  mommy is nice and lets us watch a                                   I can write a news item for next  writing  the  article,  the  editor  in  information  about  something
                                                         and learn something new.             bit of TV before we fall asleep.                                    day’s newspaper.                  chief has the duty to control that  that  happened,  but  also  you
                                                                                                                                                                                                    everything is well redacted and  must have knowledge regarding
                                                         At  school  I  like  to  learn,  color,  Before  we  sleep,  mommy  tells                                By noon I go pick up my daugh-    well  written,  so  that  the  article  the law, ethics and professional-
                                                         sing  and  play  with  my  friends.  My  us  a  story  so  we  can  fall  asleep;                        ter at school, I prepare food so  can be published on social me-   ism.
                                                         favorite game is tag, and I also like  we  sleep  until  the  sun  comes  out                            that  together  with  my  husband  dia and also appear in the next
                                                         ball games. When it’s time to eat,  again,  and  so  begins  anew  one                                   and  my  child  we  can  sit  down  edition of the newspaper the fol-  Pictured: Bon Dia Aruba journal-
                                                         I have to sit quietly at the table so  happy day.                                                        for a meal. Afterwards I go back  lowing day.                      ist, Andreina Morillo.
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