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A32    FEATURE
                Wednesday 18 april 2018
             Former first lady Barbara Bush dies at age 92




            By MICHAEL GRACZYK                                                                                                  not try to influence her hus-
            HOUSTON  (AP)  —  Barbara                                                                                           band's politics.
            Bush, the snowy-haired first                                                                                        "I don't fool around with his
            lady  whose  plainspoken                                                                                            office,"  she  said,  "and  he
            manner  and  utter  lack  of                                                                                        doesn't  fool  around  with
            pretense  made  her  more                                                                                           my household."
            popular  at  times  than  her                                                                                       In  1984,  her  quick  wit  got
            husband, President George                                                                                           her  into  trouble  when  she
            H.W. Bush, died Tuesday, a                                                                                          was  quoted  as  referring
            family spokesman said. She                                                                                          to  Geraldine  Ferraro,  the
            was 92.                                                                                                             Democratic  vice  presiden-
            Mrs. Bush brought a grand-                                                                                          tial  nominee,  as  "that  $4
            motherly style to buttoned-                                                                                         million — I can't say it, but it
            down  Washington,  often                                                                                            rhymes with rich."
            appearing in her trademark                                                                                          "It  was  dumb  of  me.  I
            fake pearl chokers and dis-                                                                                         shouldn't  have  said  it,"
            playing no vanity about her                                                                                         Mrs.  Bush  acknowledged
            white hair and wrinkles.                                                                                            in  1988.  "It  was  not  attrac-
            "What  you  see  with  me                                                                                           tive,  and  I've  been  very
            is  what  you  get.  I'm  not                                                                                       shamed.  I  apologized  to
            running  for  president  —                                                                                          Mrs.  Ferraro,  and  I  would
            George Bush is," she said at                                                                                        apologize again."
            the  1988  Republican  Na-                                                                                          Daughter-in-law      Laura
            tional  Convention,  where   In this 1990 file photo, first lady Barbara Bush poses with her dog Millie in Washington.    Bush, wife of the 43rd presi-
            her  husband,  then  vice                                                                          Associated Press  dent, said Mrs. Bush was "fe-
            president,  was  nominated   day.  "Barbara  Bush  was  a  and oilman's wife could be  that  her  bright  white  hair   rociously tart-tongued."
            to  succeed  Ronald  Rea-                                                                                           "She's  never  shied  away
            gan.                         fabulous  First  Lady  and  a  caustic  in  private,  but  her  and pale features also im-  from saying what she thinks.
                                         woman  unlike  any  other  public image was that of a  parted  a  resemblance  to
            The  Bushes,  who  were                                                                                             ...  She's  managed  to  insult
            married  Jan.  6,  1945,  had   who  brought  levity,  love,  self-sacrificing,  supportive  George Washington.     nearly all of my friends with
                                         and  literacy  to  millions.  To  spouse who referred to her  Eight years after leaving the
            the  longest  marriage  of                                                                                          one  or  another  perfectly
            any  presidential  couple  in   us, she was so much more.  husband as her "hero."      nation's  capital,  Mrs.  Bush   timed  acerbic  comment,"
                                         Mom  kept  us  on  our  toes  In  the  White  House,  "you  stood with her husband as
            American history. And Mrs.                                                                                          Laura  Bush  wrote  in  her
            Bush  was  one  of  only  two   and  kept  us  laughing  until  need  a  friend,  someone  their  son  George  W.  was   2010  book,  "Spoken  from
                                         the  end.  I'm  a  lucky  man  who loves you, who's going  sworn in as president. They
            first ladies who had a child                                                                                        the Heart."
            who was elected president.   that  Barbara  Bush  was  my  to say, 'You are great,'" Mrs.  returned  four  years  later   In her 1994 autobiography,
                                                                                                   when  he  won  a  second
                                         mother. Our family will miss  Bush  said  in  a  1992  televi-
            The  other  was  Abigail  Ad-                                                                                       "Barbara  Bush:  A  Memoir,"
            ams,  wife  of  John  Adams   her  dearly,  and  we  thank  sion interview.            term. Unlike Mrs. Bush, Abi-  Mrs.  Bush  said  she  did  her
                                         you all for your prayers and  Her uncoiffed, matronly ap-
                                                                                                   gail  Adams  did  not  live  to
            and mother of John Quincy                                                                                           best  to  keep  her  opinions
                                                                      pearance  often  provoked  see her son's inauguration.
            Adams.                       good wishes." arrangements  jokes that she looked more  She  died  in  1818,  six  years   from  the  public  while  her
                                         Funeral
            "I had the best job in Amer-                                                                                        husband was in office. But
            ica,"  she  wrote  in  a  1994   weren't  immediately  re-  like  the  boyish  president's  before John Quincy Adams   she  revealed  that  she  dis-
                                         leased.
                                                                      mother than his wife. Late-
                                                                                                   was elected.
            memoir describing her time                                                                                          agreed with him on two is-
            in  the  White  House.  "Every   The  publisher's  daughter  night  comedians  quipped  Mrs.  Bush  insisted  she  did   sues:  She  supported  legal
            single  day  was  interesting,                                                                                      abortion and opposed the
            rewarding,  and  sometimes                                                                                          sale of assault weapons.
            just plain fun."                                                                                                    "I honestly felt, and still feel,
            On  Sunday,  family  spokes-                                                                                        the  elected  person's  opin-
            man  Jim  McGrath  said                                                                                             ion is the one the public has
            the  former  first  lady  had                                                                                       the right to know," Mrs. Bush
            decided  to  decline  fur-                                                                                          wrote.  She  also  disclosed
            ther medical treatment for                                                                                          a  bout  with  depression
            health problems and focus                                                                                           in  the  mid-1970s,  saying
            instead  on  "comfort  care"                                                                                        she  sometimes  feared  she
            at  home  in  Houston.  She                                                                                         would  deliberately  crash
            had been in the hospital re-                                                                                        her  car.  She  blamed  hor-
            cently for congestive heart                                                                                         monal changes and stress.
            failure and chronic obstruc-                                                                                        "Night  after  night,  George
            tive  pulmonary  disease.  In                                                                                       held  me  weeping  in  his
            2009,  she  had  heart  valve                                                                                       arms while I tried to explain
            replacement  surgery  and                                                                                           my  feelings,"  she  wrote.
            had a long history of treat-                                                                                        "I  almost  wonder  why  he
            ment for Graves' disease, a                                                                                         didn't leave me."
            thyroid condition.                                                                                                  She  said  she  snapped  out
            "My    dear   mother   has                                                                                          of it in a few months.
            passed on at age 92. Lau-                                                                                           Mrs.  Bush  raised  five  chil-
            ra,  Barbara,  Jenna,  and  I                                                                                       dren: George W., Jeb, Neil,
            are  sad,  but  our  souls  are   In this March 8, 2017, file photo, the Mensch International Foundation presented its annual Mensch   Marvin and Dorothy. A sixth
            settled  because  we  know   Award to former U.S. President George H.W. Bush and former first lady Barbara Bush at an awards   child,  3-year-old  daughter
            hers was," George W. Bush    ceremony hosted by Congregation Beth Israel in Houston.                                Robin,  died  of  leukemia  in
            said  in  a  statement  Tues-                                                                      Associated Press  1953.q
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