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                Wednesday 10 august 2022
            Jennette McCurdy rises above childhood trauma with new book




            By ALICIA RANCILIO                                                                                                  seizure, to look up and see
            Associated Press                                                                                                    my  face  (on  a  billboard)
            Jennette  McCurdy  is  well-                                                                                        felt like my life was mocking
            aware the title of her new                                                                                          me.
            book,  “I’m  Glad  My  Mom                                                                                          AP: Are you definitely done
            Died,”  (Simon  &  Schuster)                                                                                        with acting?
            is  attention-grabbing.  She                                                                                        McCurdy:  Recently,  and
            also  readily  admits  that                                                                                         only since writing the book,
            she  means  every  word.                                                                                            there’s been a part of me
            “It’s something that I mean                                                                                         that’s like, you know, may-
            sincerely,  I’m  not  saying  it                                                                                    be  I’ll  write  something  for
            to  be  flippant.”  McCurdy,                                                                                        myself.    I  could  see  some-
            who  co-starred  in  Nickel-                                                                                        thing  like  that  happening
            odeon  shows  “iCarly”  with                                                                                        where I think there’s a ver-
            Miranda  Cosgrove  and                                                                                              sion  of  acting  that  could
            its  spin-off  “  Sam  &  Cat  “                                                                                    potentially  be  healing  for
            opposite  Ariana  Grande,                                                                                           me now, especially if I were
            hopes  readers  will  under-                                                                                        the  one  sort  of  writing  the
            stand why she makes such                                                                                            thing.
            a bold statement,                                                                                                   AP:  Now  we  should  re-
            “I  hope  that  readers  feel   Former actress Jennette McCurdy, author of the memoir “I’m Glad My Mom Died,” poses for a   ally  shout  out  how  great  it
                                         portrait, Thursday, July 28, 2022, in Los Angeles.
            that  by  the  end  of  it,  ‘this                                                                 Associated Press  is  when  you  find  the  right
            makes sense.’” The 30-year-                                                                                         therapist.
            old  writes  in  her  book  that  Writing the book, she says,  took  so  long  in  therapy.  I  these tears. I think abusive  McCurdy: It’s so important,
            her  mother  Debra  “was  a  was  an  emotional  roller-  needed  to  do  so  much  of  love  is  so  complicated  ...  right?  You’ve  got  to  try  a
            narcissist” who “emotional-  coaster.  McCurdy,  who  that  excavating  work  on  It’s going to be mixed and  couple because you’re go-
            ly,  mentally  and  physically  hosts  a  podcast  called  “  my own.                  messy.                       ing  to  get  some  doozies.
            abused”  her.  She  pushed  Empty  Inside,  “  spoke  with  AP:  When  you  think  back  AP: Your book is also a re-  You’re  going  to  get  some
            McCurdy  into  an  acting  The Associated Press about  now about your childhood  minder  of  how  you  never  people  who  just  make
            career  as  a  child  and  en-  looking back, therapy and  and  your  mom,  what  do  really  know  what’s  going  you  feel  worse.  They’re
            couraged  her  to  have  an  how she may return to work  you think?                    on with someone because  like very preoccupied with
            eating  disorder,  McCurdy  in front of the camera.       McCurdy:  My  grandfather  people  would  watch  you  their doodling or whatever
            says. Her mother insisted on  Answers have been edited  passed  away  a  few  years  on these shows and maybe  they’re doing.
            giving  her  daughter  show-  for clarity and length.     ago, and I got to really ex-  think, ‘Oh, she’s got it all.’  AP: Are you still in therapy?
            ers  through  her  late  teens,  AP:  It’s  one  thing  to  come  perience what I consider a  McCurdy:  Now  my  life  is  McCurdy:  I  am.  I  just  saw
            claiming  she  didn’t  wash  to  realizations  about  your  more  conventional  griev-  very  boring.  At  the  time,  my therapist yesterday. It’s
            her hair correctly, McCurdy  childhood through therapy  ing process of a really close  being  on  this  children’s  funny because now if I look
            says. It wasn’t until seeking  but another to share those  family  member...  It  was  television  show  that’s  so  at  my  journal  notes  from
            therapy  after  her  mother’s  discoveries  with  the  world.  heartbreaking  and  devas-  glossy and so polished and  when I first started therapy,
            death  from  complications  What made you want to put  tating.  With  my  mother’s  so exactly like perfect ... my  it’s like, how many times did
            of cancer in 2013 that Mc-   it  out  there,  first  in  a  one-  death,  I’d  go  from  being  actual life felt so the oppo-  I  binge  and  purge  today?
            Curdy  began  to  fully  deal  woman  show  (also  called  so, so deeply angry to then  site.  Living  in  that  dichoto-  And,  like,  trying  to  have  a
            with  the  trauma  she  was  “I’m  Glad  My  Mom  Died”)  feeling just so sorry for her.  my felt really confusing. But  better  relationship  with  al-
            put  through.  Before  thera-  and now in a book?         And  so  I  could  feel  com-  also now in retrospect, I see  cohol. Now it feels like little
            py, McCurdy, was drinking  McCurdy:  I  think  finding  passion and sympathy and  that there’s a lot of humor  tuneups  or  thinking  about
            excessively  and  had  un-   shape  is  very  important.  then  just  anger  and  rage.  in that.                   turning 30. What an amaz-
            healthy  romantic  relation-  There’s   certainly   many  I’d cry because I missed her  As  agonizing  as  it  is  to  be  ing thing to be able to go
            ships.  Now  after  years  of  stages  of  processing.  Pro-  and I’d be angry that I was  in the ambulance with my  into a therapy session and
            work on herself, she’s shar-  cessing  the  events  that  crying that I missed her and  mother  while  she’s  con-  just  talk  about  (expletive)
            ing her story with the world.  happened in my childhood  feel  she  doesn’t  deserve  vulsing  in  the  middle  of  a  turning 30.q

            Kenan Thompson of ‘SNL’ to host Sept. 12 Emmy Awards




            LOS  ANGELES  (AP)  —  Vet-  turns for his 20th season this  comedy  series  “All  That”
            eran    “Saturday     Night  fall.  His  work  on  “SNL”  has  and starred with Kel Mitch-
            Live”  cast  member  Kenan  earned him a trio of Emmy  ell  on  the  spinoff  “Kenan
            Thompson  will  host  next  supporting  acting  nomina-   and Kel.”
            month’s Emmy Awards.         tions, and he won a trophy  His film credits include “Clif-
            “Being a part of this incredi-  in  2018  as  lyrics  co-writer  ford the Big Red Dog” and
            ble evening where we hon-    of  the  song  “Come  Back,  “Barbershop 2: Back in Busi-
            or the best of the television  Barack,”  which  was  fea-  ness.”  The  Sept.  12  Emmy
            community  is  ridiculously  tured on the show.           ceremony  will  air  live  on
            exciting,  and  to  do  it  on  He  earned  a  lead  acting  NBC and be carried on its
            NBC  my longtime network  nomination  last  year  for  streaming sibling Peacock.
            family  makes it even more  his  sitcom  “Kenan,”  which  Top  nominees  include  the
            special,”  Thompson  said  in  NBC canceled in May after  dramas  “Succession”  and
            a statement Tuesday.         two seasons.                 “Squid  Game”  and  com-
            Thompson  has  been  with  Thompson  was  an  original  edies “Ted Lasso,” “Hacks”     Actor-comedian  Kenan  Thompson  appears  at  the  American
                                                                                                   Museum  of  Natural  History’s  2019  Museum  Gala  on  Nov.  21,
            NBC’s    late-night   sketch  cast  member  of  Nickel-   and  “Only  Murders  in  the   2019, in New York.
            show  since  2003  and  re-  odeon’s  children’s  sketch  Building.”q                                                          Associated Press
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