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                    Thursday 14 June 2018
            Sex, love, loss: Little is off limits on 'Red Table Talk'




            By LEANNE ITALIE                                                                                                    Melendez,  was  the  one
            Associated Press                                                                                                    to  suggest  they  revive  it.
            NEW  YORK  (AP)  —  Sex,                                                                                            Facebook is committed to
            love  and  loss,  self-harm,                                                                                        10 episodes, but it's possible
            addiction  and  recovery:                                                                                           the run will be extended.
            There  isn't  much  Jada                                                                                            "I  just  wanted  a  place
            Pinkett  Smith,  her  mom,                                                                                          where  people  could  have
            Adrienne     Banfield-Norris,                                                                                       the  comfort  level  to  talk
            and      her    17-year-old                                                                                         about  real  things,  where
            daughter,  Willow,  aren't                                                                                          you  can  really  have  a
            willing to talk about around                                                                                        raw  conversation,  with  a
            a  shiny  round  red  table  in                                                                                     transparent  nature,  and
            a  unique  Facebook  show                                                                                           not have to worry," Pinkett
            that has a growing, grateful                                                                                        Smith  added.  "Facebook
            audience of women.                                                                                                  creates a  certain intimacy
            And that, Pinkett Smith said                                                                                        and  community.  I  can  go
            in a recent interview, is the                                                                                       into Facebook and actually
            point.                                                                                                              talk to people."
            Pinkett Smith, who has been                                                                                         The  show  has  a  separate
            both  TV  talk  show  guest                                                                                         Facebook group with nearly
            and TV talk show producer,                                                                                          280,000  members  where
            considers    "Red     Table                                                                                         regular  conversations  and
            Talk"  intimate,  authentic                                                                                         those   interactions   are
            and  fluid,  a  combination                                                                                         happening.  Their  premiere
            difficult to achieve through                                                                                        trip  to  the  red  table,
            more  traditional  channels.                                                                                        which  is  in  Pinkett  Smith's
            The  weekly  show  debuted                                                                                          California home, has been
            about  a  month  ago  on                                                                                            viewed  about  27  million
            Facebook     Watch     and   In this July 13, 2017 file photo, Jada Pinkett Smith arrives at the world premiere of "Girls Trip" in Los   times.  The  latest  episode,
            includes  live  extras  like   Angeles.                                                                             which aired this week, has
            viewer questions and guest                                                                         Associated Press  been  watched  4  million
            appearances  by  friends                                                                                            times  —  so  far.  The  show
            and family.                  It certainly doesn't feel that  that she was once a cutter,  helpful, she said.        airs Mondays and question
            "It's  not  about  format,"  she  it is as the three generations  hated  her  "Whip  My  Hair"  "We  talk  so  much  about  sessions on Wednesdays.
            said.  "I  want  to  keep  that  venture into some sensitive  fame and years ago walked  what's  happening  outside  "I love being able to go in
            organic  flow.  I  don't  want  territory.                in on her mom and dad, Will  of us and we're not talking  an actually talk to people,"
            anything to be forced."      So far, Willow has revealed  Smith,  having  sex.  Pinkett  enough about what's going  Pinkett  Smith  said.  "Our
                                                                      Smith  said  she  herself  was  on  within,"  said  Pinkett  community is growing every
                                                                      9  when  her  grandmother  Smith, who earlier this week  day and I'm a part of it and
                                                                      filled her in on the wonders  on Instagram paid tribute to  actually  in  it.  That's  what  I
                                                                      of  masturbation  and  she  the  late  Anthony  Bourdain  love.  We  love  the  female
                                                                      later  spent  a  stretch  of  and  Kate  Spade  with  communion,  where  young
                                                                      quality time alone with sex  the     acknowledgement  people  and  older  people
                                                                      toys,  sometimes  achieving  that  she  has  in  the  past  can learn from each other.
                                                                      multiple  orgasms  in  up  to  contemplated suicide.      It  feels  like  an  old-school
                                                                      five forays in a single day.  "We're all up in here going  women's ritual, whether it's
                                                                      Norris, fondly referred to as  through  (stuff).  We're  all  in the kitchen cooking and
                                                                      Gammy,  spoke  honestly  in  pain.  We're  all  trying  to  talking or somewhere else.
                                                                      about  her  past  struggles  figure it out. For those of us  That's  hard  to  come  by
                                                                      with drug addiction and the  who have figured out even  these days."q
                                                                      pain  of  losing  a  daughter.  a sliver of all of this, just tell
                                                                      Pinkett Smith and Gabrielle  me  your  story,  because
                                                                      Union  shared  their  17-year  maybe I can get an answer
                                                                      feud and their mending of  for  myself.  That's  what  this
                                                                      fences.  Pinkett  Smith  and  show is all about," she said.
                                                                      her  husband's  first  wife,  Sharing  on  such  sensitive
                                                                      Sheree Fletcher, went over  topics  takes  "getting  to  a
                                                                      rockier  times  raising  the  certain  place  where  you
                                                                      now-grown  Trey,  Will's  son  have  a  deep  sense  of
                                                                      with Fletcher.               comfort with yourself," said
                                                                      Gammy  noted  she  wasn't  Pinkett  Smith,  who  most
                                                                      always  on  board  with  the  recently  co-starred  in  the
                                                                      unconventional  freedoms  comedy "Girls Trip."
                                                                      Will   and   Jada    have  Control     is   key,   and
                                                                      allowed their kids, including  Facebook is just the place
                                                                      19-year-old  Jaden,  who  to keep it loose, she said.
                                                                      was  allowed  to  move  out  The  show  is  an  outgrowth
                                                                      at age 15.                   of  an  online  Mother's  Day
                                                                      The  idea,  Pinkett  Smith  video the three made when
                                                                      said, is to testify rather than  Willow  was  just  12.  Pinkett
                                                                      preach.  The  former  takes  Smith's  producing  partner,
                                                                      courage and is much more  Ellen Rakieten, with Miguel
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