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   FEATUREThursday 23 July 2015

The Parent-Kid Pot Talk From Inside the Industry 

LEANNE ITALIE                   This photo shows Todd Mitchem at his home near Denver. Mitchem is a cannabis consumer and                                         port me because they see
Associated Press                CEO of an app-based social network for cannabis enthusiasts, High There! He’s also the single dad                                 I have a child? But over the
NEW YORK (AP) — Soon af-        of three kids ages 11, 9 and 7. Mitchem says legal recreational marijuana has changed the pot                                     past year, things in Colo-
ter Colorado legalized rec-     conversation for him and other parents.                                                                                           rado have calmed down
reational cannabis, Todd                                                                                                                                          quite a bit as far as that
Mitchem’s son proposed                                                                                                                     (Todd Mitchem via AP)  goes. Outside of Colorado,
using the plant for a horti-                                                                                                                                      there are still big problems
culture project at his Mon-     like him, but he said all      10-year-old girl and 8-year-   were like, ‘Wait a minute, I                                        going on with parents and
tessori school in Denver.       parents trying to find their   old boy.                       know her,’ and that sort of                                         just being able to use it
School officials said no way,   way through the talk amid      Farrington and her hus-        thing,” she said. “Now it’s                                         as medicine and have a
despite support from dad,       rapid acceptance of legal      band do not use cannabis,      absolutely fine.”                                                   child.”
a regular weed user and         marijuana can benefit from     but she acknowledged her       In addition to Colorado                                             Bruce Barcott, 49, is a pot
chief executive of a dating     some basic research be-        timeline for talking to her    and the District of Colum-                                          user for both medical and
app and social network for      fore spouting: “Because it’s   kids about it was likely ac-   bia, Washington state,                                              recreational purposes. He
fellow enthusiasts.             bad, Johnny.”                  celerated by her work. In      Oregon and Alaska have                                              lives outside Seattle and
“They didn’t want to touch      Has Mitchem’s work and         Colorado, where pot shops      legalized marijuana for rec-                                        consumes about once a
it. They weren’t ready to       pot use changed the way        are plentiful, not having the  reational use. A number of                                          month, but never around
touch it,” said Mitchem,        he is perceived among          pot conversation isn’t an      states have also decrimi-                                           his kids, a 13-year-old son
who is divorced and shares      other parents?                 option.                        nalized the possession of                                           and a 16-year-old daugh-
custody of his kids, ages 11,   “As a cannabis  busi-          “It comes up on the eve-       small amounts of pot and                                            ter. He’s also the author of
9 and 7.                        ness  person I’ve been all     ning news. You drive down      passed medical marijuana                                            a new book on the future
That was early 2013. Now,       over the news, so the par-     the street and you’re          laws.                                                               of legal marijuana in Ameri-
pot is everywhere in the        ents of my kids’ friends       passing a dispensary and       Brittany Driver, 30, owns a                                         ca, “Weed the People.”
state, along with three         know me,” he said. “Some       there’s a funny smell,” she    cannabis public relations                                           “I had real qualms as a par-
others and the District of      kids’ parents won’t let their  said.                          agency in Denver, writes                                            ent writing this book,” he
Columbia that pushed be-        kids hang out at my house.     Farrington’s company held      frequently about the indus-                                         said. “I mean, here I am
yond sanctioned medicinal       They don’t say why. Other      its first national cannabis    try and is co-chairman of a                                         writing a book about pot
use to legal consumption        parents are fascinated by      conference in Denver soon      chapter of Women Grow,                                              and I’ve got two young
just because.                   it.”                           after the state constitution   which supports women in                                             teenagers in my house.”
Mitchem, 44, has been           Cassandra Farrington, 43,      was amended in 2012 to         the business. She is a user of                                      His pot conversation has
speaking openly to his kids     is co-founder and chief ex-    allow for adult recreational   medical marijuana to stim-                                          been a running dialogue,
about cannabis since he         ecutive of Marijuana  Busi-    consumption. It was a high-    ulate her appetite, and she                                         he said.
first entered the industry a    ness Daily, a Denver-based     profile affair.                has a 3-year-old son.                                               “We would stop and start
couple of years ago. He         industry publishing and        “That’s when I basically got   “Even with legal marijua-                                           in little snippets, maybe on
co-founded the app High         conference planning com-       ‘outed’ within my local so-    na, there was still a lot of                                        the drive to school or over
There! in addition to run-      pany. She’s also a Girl Scout  cial community. Some par-      trepidation,” she said. “Is                                         dinner. My daughter, es-
ning it.                        troop leader and mom to a      ents in my Girl Scout troop    a neighbor going to re-                                             pecially, thought it was hi-
So how has legal weed                                                                                                                                             larious that her father was
changed the parenting                                                                                                                                             writing a book about pot.
pot conversation for him                                                                                                                                          It’s an interesting opener,”
and others raising kids while                                                                                                                                     Barcott said. “I wanted to
working in the fast-grow-                                                                                                                                         really talk with them about
ing business segment?                                                                                                                                             marijuana in a way that
“My kids know everything,”                                                                                                                                        came from a place of hon-
he said. “My 11-year-old                                                                                                                                          esty and factual data and
son is the playground edu-                                                                                                                                        truth and not have to resort
cator. They know probably                                                                                                                                         to some sort of scare tactic
more about cannabis than                                                                                                                                          to keep them off pot.”
most grown-ups who are                                                                                                                                            Pretending, in a legal or ille-
not in the space. We talk                                                                                                                                         gal state, that teens aren’t
about the facts. We talk                                                                                                                                          going to encounter mari-
about the science.”                                                                                                                                               juana is not realistic, Bar-
Mitchem doesn’t fire up                                                                                                                                           cott said.
around his kids, but he has                                                                                                                                       “I told my daughter, ‘Look,
partaken of small amounts                                                                                                                                         it’s hard enough to main-
in edibles “when we’re                                                                                                                                            tain a good GPA as it is.
all hanging out together,                                                                                                                                         Imagine trying to do that
watching a movie or some-                                                                                                                                         when you’re drunk three
thing like that.”                                                                                                                                                 nights a week or if you’re
He added: “They’re very                                                                                                                                           using pot,’” he said.
aware of the cannabis                                                                                                                                             Barcott remembers the
brownies that are in the re-                                                                                                                                      time he brought home a
frigerator that they’re not                                                                                                                                       small cannabis plant to
allowed to touch.”                                                                                                                                                photograph and study for
It’s also not OK for them to                                                                                                                                      his book. It did not go un-
try pot in any other form.                                                                                                                                        noticed by his kids.
Not only is it illegal since                                                                                                                                      “They were, like, ‘Is that
they’re under 21, but it’s                                                                                                                                        a pot plant?’ We had a
bad for their developing                                                                                                                                          great conversation,” he
brains, dad said.                                                                                                                                                 said. “We said, ‘Look, this is
The pot conversation can                                                                                                                                          a marijuana plant. It’s been
be trickier for industry folks                                                                                                                                    demonized for 75 years.q
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