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                       Monday 11 May 2020

            Lawns are the new wedding venue in the age of coronavirus




            By LEANNE ITALIE                                                                                                    said. “Sometimes when you
            NEW  YORK  (AP)  —  Love                                                                                            put  goodness  out  into  the
            in  the  age  of  coronavirus                                                                                       world it kind of comes back
            sometimes requires a lawn.                                                                                          to you.”
            Couples with dashed wed-                                                                                            In   Muskego,     Wiscon-
            ding plans due to lockdown                                                                                          sin,  Kalee  and  Tim  Gbur
            restrictions  have  been  ty-                                                                                       weren’t  in  need  of  a  bor-
            ing  the  knot  on  those  tidy                                                                                     rowed  lawn.  They  used
            green  spreads  instead,  in-                                                                                       their own for their wedding
            cluding at least one loaner.                                                                                        on April 18.
            Danielle    Cartaxo    and                                                                                          They  had  originally  hoped
            Ryan  Cignarella  were  sup-                                                                                        to  marry  last  October,  but
            posed  to  get  married  in                                                                                         Kalee’s  paternal  grand-
            West  Orange,  New  Jersey,                                                                                         mother  fell  ill  and  died
            on April 11 at a venue with                                                                                         in  December  at  101.  Her
            sweeping views of the New                                                                                           grandparents’    wedding
            York  City  skyline.  Rather                                                                                        anniversary  was  April  18,
            than  abandon  their  Easter                                                                                        and  her  chosen  venue,  a
            Weekend  nuptials,  they                                                                                            grand  hotel  nearby,  was
            headed outdoors.                                                                                                    free on that date.
            The tricky part was finding a                                                                                       Then  the  pandemic  struck
            lawn. The two live in Wayne,                                                                                        and  the  couple’s  plans
            Pennsylvania,  about  100                                                                                           were scuttled once again.
            miles  away,  but  they  had                                                                                        What  was  once  supposed
            a marriage license issued in   In this April 11, 2020, photo provided by Michael Wargo, newlyweds Danielle Cartaxo and Ryan   to be a big affair with more
            West  Orange,  where  Car-   Cignarella kiss while wearing masks after getting married in West Orange, N.J.         than 250 guests was moved
            taxo lived until she was 5.                                                                        Associated Press  to their lawn.
            “We still felt like at the end   That’s  where  a  stranger,  `Wedding March’ for them  taxo’s  parents.  The  bride,   “We went through weeks of
            of  the  day  making  that   Janice  Berman,  comes  in.  on  a  speaker,”  Berman  in a short white dress, held    trying to decide. Should we
            commitment  to  each  oth-   A  friend  contacted  Ber-   said.  “We  watched  from  a bouquet. A small, hand-      move our date altogether?
            er  was  important  and  we   man,  and  she  offered  her  the porch. It was really fun.  written  “Just  Married”  sign   Should we keep it April 18?
            didn’t  want  to  wait,”  Car-  front  lawn,  with  a  few  yel-  They were so sweet.”  marked   the    occasion.   I  said,  `You  know  what,  I
            taxo said.                   low  spring  blooms  on  one  The couple’s maid of honor  They’ll have a party later.  don’t  want  to  give  up  our
            But they were barred from    of her bushes as backdrop.   and best man attended at    “You  have  to  be  grateful   date.  I  want  to  honor  my
            marrying in a public space.   “My  husband  played  the  a safe distance, as did Car-  in times like this,” Cignarella   grandma,’” Kalee said.
                                                                                                                                They were going to keep it
                                                                                                                                small and simple. Then her
                                                                                                                                mother  and  sister  stepped
                                                                                                                                in with balloons and a huge
                                                                                                                                “Just Married” sign with their
                                                                                                                                names  in  their  wedding
                                                                                                                                colors,  purple  and  gray.
                                                                                                                                Loved   ones   decorated
                                                                                                                                their cars and stood in the
                                                                                                                                street,  honking  their  horns
                                                                                                                                in  celebration.  A  neighbor
                                                                                                                                built  a  wooden  backdrop
                                                                                                                                adorned  with  tea  candles
                                                                                                                                and flowers.
                                                                                                                                Somebody else provided a
                                                                                                                                white plastic aisle runner.
                                                                                                                                “When we were doing this
                                                                                                                                we were like, this is just not
                                                                                                                                going to be what we want-
                                                                                                                                ed,  but  it  actually  end-
                                                                                                                                ed  up  being  better  than
                                                                                                                                what  we  wanted.  It  really
                                                                                                                                touched  our  hearts  seeing
                                                                                                                                everybody there, just com-
                                                                                                                                ing together,” Tim said.
                                                                                                                                  “I  wouldn’t  change  a
                                                                                                                                thing.”
                                                                                                                                With  social  distancing  in
                                                                                                                                place, and high wind blow-
                                                                                                                                ing,  Kalee’s  not  sure  ex-
                                                                                                                                actly what their impromptu
                                                                                                                                guests  actually  heard  dur-
                                                                                                                                ing the ceremony.
            In this April 11, 2020, photo provided by Michael Wargo, newlyweds Danielle Cartaxo and Ryan Cignarella pose after getting   “They were pretty far,” she
            married in West Orange, N.J.                                                                                        laughed.q
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