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        about their experience for a publication? If you are asked to
        do a podcast, perhaps you could suggest this person as a
        future guest?
        Another way you can power up is to be approachable. What
        is your demeanor like at networking events? Using the words
        of one leadership coach, do you “emanate a sense of warmth”
        or “give off vibes that warn others away?”  Maybe you are
        not sure, so here’s another way to think about it. At the last
        event you attended, did you meet anyone new? Or introduce
        someone else to a new contact? If the answer is no that was a
        missed opportunity for you to power up. You could have made
        an important connection or learned something new. Also
        consider the point of view of a fellow attendee. Meeting you
        could have made their evening more special and worthwhile.
        It could have even been exciting enough to make their whole   Chelsea (center) with Rina Hatano (left), and Miharu Takahama,
        year! That’s a great way to power up.                who is WAD’s Ambassador to Japan


        While it can be inferred that networking with new people   effort that counts! Also, they suggest taking the time to “show up” - attend
        at networking events is a good idea, it’s often a missed   meetings in person, rather than dialing in, if possible. You never know
        opportunity. Ironically, at these events, people sometimes   who you might meet and what you might learn.
        gather in cliques with people they already know, talk
        amongst themselves, and don’t exude an approachable vibe.   As for us, we can both recall the positive impact of meeting new people at
        I think many people have experienced this. It’s unlikely to be   industry events. In some instances, we had an encounter that completely
        intentional – friends can tend to gather, and their individual   changed our lives. Here’s an example. At one industry event, one of us
        approachability may not be at the top of their mind. But that’s   had the rare opportunity to meet one of the world’s top forensic scientists.
        the point of this article; to bring awareness.       After following his work for years, this was a dream come true. But would
                                                             he give a stranger his time and attention? The strongest takeaway from
        If you are one of those people, there’s a solution. There is   this experience is that despite being a “celebrity” in his own right, he was
        some great advice out there on how to increase your   so kind and approachable to this stranger who recognized him. But you
        approachability. Not only will it help you meet more people   don’t have to be famous to make an impact. Some of the most impactful
        cocktail parties but can benefit your entire career. Forbes   connections we made at networking events was a simple act of kindness
        dedicated a great article to this subject, wherein they conclude   from a random attendee that made us feel welcome and introduced
        that approachability in the workplace is an “essential” quality   us to their friends. That experience can make any event special and
        for leaders. It fosters a positive organizational culture that   worthwhile for the attendee. Just think - you could be the catalyst. That’s
        increases your likability, encourages collaboration, and   powerful.
        enhances creativity.
                                                             So how do you become more approachable? Here’s one idea.
        Forbes offers some great tips for how to increase one’s   Approachability expert Scott Ginsberg reportedly wears a nametag all
        approachability. They say to focus on the following three areas:   day, every day, since 2000! His goal is to encourage people to become
        making yourself available, getting to know people’s names,   more friendly and approachable.  He firmly believes that people are less
        and being more present. What are the next steps? Carve   likely to approach you if they don’t know your name (and vice versa).
        out blocks of time that coworkers, or others, can “drop-in,” in   If you are not keen on wearing a perpetual nametag, Ginsberg has
        person or virtually, to chat with you, without an appointment   more suggestions to increase your approachability. He says to mentally
        or a formal agenda. When someone asks if they can meet   assemble some potential talking points in advance of networking events,
        with you, give your drop-in time and let the attendee lead the   to ask questions geared toward finding common ground with networking
        conversation. Also, when meeting new people, address them   partners (rather than discussing the weather), to refrain from crossing
        by name, and if you can’t remember it, simply ask them. It’s the   your arms, and to always carry a business card.



        We hope you appreciated this article and that it helped you to recognize and appreciate your power and provided you with the information
        that you need to pay it forward. Also, speaking of opportunities, if you are interested in contributing a chapter in WAD members Chelsea
        Binns and Bruce Sackman’s latest book, The Art of Investigation III: Industry Confidential, please see the details at theartofinvestigation.
        com and email us at theartofinvestigation@gmail.com with your interest.




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