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         their lives.  Many important life skills are
         developed when a child has a special inter-
         est, and not all of them are directly related
         to the interest itself.  Children with a ‘pas-
                                                  -   Parents who recognize the importance of
         sistence.  They acquire a refreshing love of
         learning.  They learn how to get along well                                           -
         with  other  people,  especially  those  who   op a special interest.  A clever parent will
         share the same interests as they do.  They                                            -
                                                  -   terests and the passions to emerge.  The
         ents, especially when the parents take an
                                                      interest,  in  fact  he  or  she  might  not  be
         interest.  And they learn how to relate to   good at it at all.  But the parent should have
                                                      enough evidence to suggest that this is an
         as in the piano teacher, the soccer coach,   interest  that  captures  their  child’s  fancy
         the art instructor, the librarian, etc.      and makes him or her excited, interested,
                                                      and involved.
         Now  let’s  compare  this  to  children  who
                                                  -
                                                      child’s  interest  you  are  pursuing  and  not
         come home from school, do some home-
         work,  and  wander  aimlessly  about  the    ballerina but never had the chance, don’t
         house.  They may have friends over, they     expect your reluctant daughter to live your
         may go out to play, they may even become


                                                  -   use of  that baby grand in the living room,
                                                      don’t drag your son to music lessons if he
         mall once again.                             hates every minute of it. Key in on the in-
                                                      terest that gives your child a special thrill,
                                                      and work to build it into a hobby or a skill.
         a special interest, but none more so that
         the child who is struggling in class, either   This may mean a certain amount of invest-
         socially and academically.  These children   ment  on  your  part,  whether  you’re  buy-
                                                      ing a state of the art digital camera for a
         sense of self-esteem as well as a feeling of   budding  photographer,  or  a  semester  of
         personal value.  Nothing makes a child feel
         good about themselves as much as excel-
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