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            message.  So  Hashem  decided  that  the  only                             achray-
            way to bring them back is to let them person-  us.  First,  Shaul  did  not  act  responsibly  by
            ally feel the pain that kavayochal He is going  kavayochal
            through.                                  had  been  commanded.  Second,  he  refused
                                                  -   to accept responsibility for his mistake, and
            responsibility. A responsible person not only                                   -
            behaves a certain way, but also admits errors,                                  -
            accepts blame, and does whatever he can to   ish people, and cost Shaul his kingdom.
            repair the damage.
                                                      What is responsibility?
            As  Yidden,  the  ability  to  take  responsibility   In regard to chinuch, there are two main as-

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            im.  Although  the  family’s  food  supply  was   others, and to the Ribbono Shel Olam. His be-
                                                      havior is disciplined, and he follows rules and
                                                                                            -
                                                      ber of a family, class, and society, there are
                                       Anochi e’erve-  roles he  must  play  and  things  he must  and
            nu                                        must not do.
                                                  -
            roel unfolded.                            come late to Shacharis, because he believes
                                                      that doing so would be wrong to a) himself,
                                                      because he will miss out on the beginning of
                                                  -
                            “Tzadkah memeni
                                                  -
                                               Mal-   will not be proper, and he may miss out on
            ch                                        several Ameins, Amein yehei shemei rabbahs,
            chus Beis Dovid was born, and it is this sense us Beis Dovid
                                                      and other chiyuvim.
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            sheva.
            In contrast, when Shmuel Hanavi asked Shaul   decision, and to accept its consequences. A
            why he had not killed the animals of Amal-  child who does poorly on a test should be able
            ek,  as  Hashem  had  commanded,  he  said,   to assess his behavior and come to responsi-
            “chamal ha’am                             ble conclusions. Responsible students will tell
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