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feedback is so hard. They also pro- trigger is generated by the per-
vide readers with some tools to son giving you the feedback. You
help them recognize, digest, and might feel that the person has no
grow from that any kind of feed- -
back (unwanted and unwarranted ject and should not be addressing
included). you, or you might feel that you de-
You might think that there are by that person. In these instances,
wrong with feedback, but Stone itself to the person who is giving
it.
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ing and growing from the feed-
triggers focus on us. They don’t
focus on the substance of the
feedback or the person who is giv-
Truth Triggers. We can be ing it. Instead, they cause us to re-
think who we are. We feel unsure
feedback itself. If the feedback is of ourselves – and feel threatened
feel frustrated and wronged.
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