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ĞƐƉĞĐŝĂůůLJ ƚŚŽƐĞ ǁŝƚŚ ƐƉĞƌŐĞƌƐ Žƌ ŽƚŚĞƌ dŚĞƌĞ ŝƐ ŶŽ ŽŶĞ ĐŽƌƌĞĐƚ ǁĂLJ ƚŽ ĂĐƚ ŝŶ Ă
ĚŝƐŽƌĚĞƌƐ ŽŶ ƚŚĞ ĂƵƟƐŵ ƐƉĞĐƚƌƵŵ͘ &Žƌ ĚŽĐƚŽƌ͛Ɛ ǁĂŝƟŶŐ ƌŽŽŵ ďĞĐĂƵƐĞ ƚŚĞ ƐŽ-
ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ǁŚŽ ƐƚƌƵŐŐůĞ ǁŝƚŚ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ͕ ĐŝĂů ĐŽŶƚĞdžƚ ŝƐ ĂůǁĂLJƐ Ă ůŝƩůĞ ďŝƚ ĚŝīĞƌĞŶƚ͊
ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ ŶĞĞĚ ƚŽ ďĞ ĞdžƉůŝĐŝƚůLJ ƚĂƵŐŚƚ͘ ^ŽŵĞƟŵĞƐ ƚŚĞ ƌĞĐĞƉƟŽŶŝƐƚ ŵĂLJ ďĞ ŚĂƉ-
,ŽǁĞǀĞƌ͕ ĂƐ ǁĞ ƐĂǁ ĂďŽǀĞ ǁŝƚŚ ĐŚŝů- ƉLJ ƚŽ ĂŶƐǁĞƌ ƉĞƌƐŽŶĂů ƋƵĞƐƟŽŶƐ ĂďŽƵƚ
ĚƌĞŶ ŽĨ ĚŝīĞƌĞŶƚ ĂŐĞƐ͕ LJŽƵ ĐĂŶ͛ƚ ƚĞĂĐŚ ŚĞƌƐĞůĨ͕ ĞƐƉĞĐŝĂůůLJ ŝĨ LJŽƵ ŶŽƟĐĞ Ă ŶĞǁ ĞŶ-
ǁŚĂƚ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ ĂƌĞ ĨŽƌ ĞǀĞƌLJ ƐŝƚƵĂƟŽŶ͘ ŐĂŐĞŵĞŶƚ ƌŝŶŐ ŽŶ ŚĞƌ ĮŶŐĞƌ͘ ^ŽŵĞƟŵĞƐ
/ŶƐƚĞĂĚ͕ ǁĞ ŶĞĞĚ ƚŽ ƚĞĂĐŚ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ŚŽǁ LJŽƵ ĐĂŶ ĐŽŶǀĞƌƐĞ ǁŝƚŚ ŽƚŚĞƌ ƉĂƟĞŶƚƐ͕ ŝĨ
ƚŽ ƌĞĂĚ ƚŚĞ ƐŝƚƵĂƟŽŶ ĂŶĚ ƚŚĞŶ ĂĚĂƉƚ ƚŽ they are showing certain signs that they
ŝƚ ǁŝƚŚ ĂŶ ĂƉƉƌŽƉƌŝĂƚĞ ƌĞƐƉŽŶƐĞ͘ DŝĐŚĞůůĞ are interested in talking to you. With this
'ĂƌĐŝĂ tŝŶŶĞƌ͕ Ă ƐŽĐŝĂů ǁŽƌŬĞƌ ĂŶĚ ĞĂƌůLJ in mind, it suddenly becomes clear that
ƉŝŽŶĞĞƌ ŽĨ ƉƌŽŵŽƟŶŐ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ͕ ůĂďĞůƐ for students to “behave well” requires
ƚŚŝƐ ƚLJƉĞ ŽĨ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ ĞĚƵĐĂƟŽŶ ĂƐ ͞ƐŽ- ƚŚĂƚ ƚŚĞLJ ďĞ ƐĞŶƐŝƟǀĞ ƚŽ ƚŚĞ ƐŝƚƵĂƟŽŶ
ĐŝĂů ƚŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ͘͟ ĂŶĚ ƚŚĞ ƉĞŽƉůĞ ŝŶ ƚŚĞ ƐŝƚƵĂƟŽŶ ŝŶ ŽƌĚĞƌ
for them to socially problem solve how to
/Ŷ ŚĞƌ ŵĂŶLJ ŬƐ ĂŶĚ ǁŽƌŬƐŚŽƉƐ͕ Dŝ- produce the “expected behavior.”
ĐŚĞůůĞ 'ĂƌĐŝĂ tŝŶŶĞƌ͕ ĚŝƐĐƵƐƐĞƐ ƚŚĞ ĐŽŶ-
ĐĞƉƚ ŽĨ ͞ƐŽĐŝĂů ƚŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ͘͟ ĐĐŽƌĚŝŶŐ ƚŽ dŚĞ ĨŽůůŽǁŝŶŐ ĂƌĞ ĐŽƌĞ ƉŚŝůŽƐŽƉŚŝĞƐ ŽĨ
'ĂƌĐŝĂ tŝŶŶĞƌ͗ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƚŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ͗
ͻ WĞŽƉůĞ ͞ƚŚŝŶŬ ǁŝƚŚ ƚŚĞŝƌ ĞLJĞƐ͟ ƚŽ
Our social behavior is the end result of ĮŐƵƌĞ ŽƵƚ ŽƚŚĞƌ ƉĞŽƉůĞ͛Ɛ ƚŚŽƵŐŚƚƐ ĂŶĚ
Bulletin
a complicated and very fast thought ĞŵŽƟŽŶƐ͘
process called social thinking. Our be- ͻ KƵƌ ƚŚŽƵŐŚƚƐ ĂŶĚ ĞŵŽƟŽŶƐ ĂƌĞ
havioral response in every social con- ĐŽŶŶĞĐƚĞĚ͘ dŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ ĂīĞĐƚƐ ĨĞĞůŝŶŐ ĂŶĚ
ƚĞdžƚ ŝƐ ŝŶĨŽƌŵĞĚ ďLJ ŽƵƌ ĐŽŶƐŝĚĞƌĂƟŽŶ ŽĨ ĨĞĞůŝŶŐ ĂīĞĐƚƐ ƚŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ͘
the thoughts and feelings of the people ͻ KƵƌ ĂĐƟŽŶƐ ĂƌĞ ĐŽŶƐƚĂŶƚůLJ ŐŽǀ-
around us as well as how we intend to in- ĞƌŶĞĚ ďLJ ƚŚŝŶŬŝŶŐ ĂďŽƵƚ ŽƚŚĞƌ ƉĞŽƉůĞ͕
ŇƵĞŶĐĞ ƚŚĞŵ͘ dŚŝƐ ŵĞĂŶƐ ƚŚĂƚ ŝŶ ƚŚĞ ĐŽŶ- ĞǀĞŶ ŝĨ ǁĞ ĂƌĞ ŶŽƚ ǁŝƚŚ ƚŚĞŵ͘
ƚĞdžƚ ŽĨ ŐŽŝŶŐ ƚŽ ƚŚĞ ĚŽĐƚŽƌ͛Ɛ ŽĸĐĞ͙ŽƵƌ ͻ tĞ ĂůǁĂLJƐ ƚƌLJ ƚŽ ĂĐƚ ŝŶ Ă ǁĂLJ
ďĞŚĂǀŝŽƌ ŵĂLJ ďĞ ƐůŝŐŚƚůLJ ĚŝīĞƌĞŶƚ ĞĂĐŚ ƚŚĂƚ ŽƚŚĞƌ ƉĞŽƉůĞ ǁŝůů ŶŽƚ ƚŚŝŶŬ ǁĞ ĂƌĞ
ƟŵĞ ĚĞƉĞŶĚŝŶŐ ŽŶ ǁŚŽ ŝƐ ĂƌŽƵŶĚ ƵƐ ĂŶĚ ͞ǁĞŝƌĚ͘͟
what we perceive they are thinking and ͻ ůů ƉĞŽƉůĞ ĞŶŐĂŐĞ ŝŶ ƚŚĞƐĞ
feeling in that moment. ƚŚŽƵŐŚƚƐ ĂŶĚ ďĞŚĂǀŝŽƌƐ͘
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