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          What can you do?                            explains why these myths need to be
          Be  kind  to  yourself.  Understand         challenged and corrected.


          growing and doing your best. If you                            : The teenage years
          truly  feel  that  you  made  a  mistake    are  not  about  surviving.  They  are
          you can explain to your child, “I was       about thriving. There’s a lot of work
          very angry when I told you that you         that is happening during adolescence
          couldn’t… and I’ve decided to change        that needs to happen in order to de-
                                                      velop core character traits for the fu-
                                                      ture. Teenagers who test boundaries
                                                      and who have the passion to explore
                                                      are working on themselves.


                                                                          There are more hor-
                                                      mones during the teenage years, but
                                                      it is the changes in the way the brain
          A:
                                                      teenage behavior.
          just  need  to  survive  the  adolescent
          years. The teenage years are all about                            Teenagers  do  not
          pain, confusion, and terror.                become adults and completely inde-
                                                      pendent at the end of adolescence.
                              :  Hormones  make       In reality, they are moving from de-
          teenagers go crazy.                         pendence to interdependence – the
                                                      ability  to  depend  on  you  and  your
                              : At the end of ad-     ability to depend on them.
          olescence, teenagers become adults
          and are completely independent.

          In his new book,               , Dr. Dan
          Siegel debunks all three of the myths
          about  teenagers  above.  Instead,  he








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