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writes the above story about forgive-
ness in her new book
Forgiveness is not a bargain or ne-
. We cannot think that we
e. In her book, she tells the story -
unforgivable things and yet managed -
to forgive and move forward. sults of that forgiveness will be. Per-
right now? When faced with uncer-
- be changed and discover that the of-
- fenses that seemed quite terrible are
ers and at the circumstances we are somehow much more easily tolerat-
ed.
is the forgiveness is nuanced, and Forgiveness is a process. The re-
something we all can gain from, if searchers at the UWMadison discov-
ered that saying “I forgive you” is not
at UWMadison, Robert Enright, PhD, saying those words, even if we mean
- them because the angry feelings can
giveness. His book
-
derstand our feelings. We also need
Forgiveness can help heal anxiety
our quality of life once we grant it. and fear

