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                                        Happy

                                        Children






                                                             By Rifka Schonfeld, Director of S.O.S.
                                                                 (Strategies For Optimum Success)


              Who doesn’t want their children to be happy?                                 -
              The  truth  is  that  though  we  might  not  think
              about  it  on  a  daily  basis,  parents’  main  goal
              for their  children  is  that  they be  happy.  Suc-
              cess, fame, and beauty pales in comparison to
              happiness when parents think about what they
              want for their children. But, how do you “in-



              you help your child feel something? Well, ac-
              cording to groundbreaking psychologist Mikaly
              Csikszentmihalyi, “Happiness is not something
              that  happens  to  people  but  something  that
                                                      Sweet sorrow. Meaning. A chance to be a hero.
              happen? Or, rather, can you help your children
              make their own happiness happen?
              Before we get into the details of how to help   life.
              your  children  learn  how  to  create  their  own
                                                  -   How can we become heroic parents? By help-
              ell from his book The Childhood Roots of Adult   ing our children learn how to create happiness
              Happiness. We might not always agree with it,                                -
                                                                                           -
              parent happiness:                       ents can take in order to learn how to create
                                                      and sustain joy on their own.
              There  is  a  point

                                                  -                 The  sense  of  being  rooted,
                                                  -



                                                      their parents – luckily this part of the connec-

                                                      of  a  community,  a  member  of  a  school,  and
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