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“What motivates me is meeting people who do not share my same background. I want to
build, thrive, and tear down bridges of discrimination, racism, and any other isms that go
against my beliefs.”
“…real sense of curiosity. I don’t want everyone to think the same super stale and boring
thing.”
“What motivates me is my desire to connect with humanity and the humanness of those I
encounter.”
2.2 Reluctance: Civility, Fear
When discussing what holds them back from engaging in relationships across political
divides, participants spoke about being reluctant because of others’ unwillingness to listen, be
civil, or not wanting to be offensive or create a charged emotional situation. Other participants also
spoke about not having access to other people with different views, and also fear of their views being
held against them in the future in relationships, jobs, etc.
“What holds me back is. . . people who have demonstrated throughout our connection or
association their unwillingness to listen and engage with civility.”
“I find the lack of civility and willingness to listen makes me reluctant to engage .”
“What makes me hold back is a lack of trust and not knowing if certain things will be used
against me later.”
“I hold back because I don’t always know where people stand. I don’t want to say
something triggering or offensive.”
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