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Issue 1: December 2017








       SKIVVY IN THE SERVICE OF TWO DOMS





       by Skivvy

           kivvy’s role is a mixture of gopher,
           domestic slave and occasionally
      Ssubmissive. Many in the fetish scene
       mix up slave and sub and use the terms
       interchangeably. To me the role of a slave
       is to do the bidding of the Master in all sorts
       of ways. In a good relationship it is done
       willingly and with a sense of fun.
       Being a sub implies taking part in all kinds
       of fetish scenarios, some of them sexual
       and some not. A sub may not be a slave
       also although most slaves are probably
       also subs to some degree.


























                                           Skivvy has his fetishes. They revolve   should remain just that. Best to try out
                                           around the notion of power and power   what you know as a sub. Taking on too
                                           exchange. This may take the form of boot   hard a scene could have some pretty bad
                                           worship (yes Skinheads to the front of the   consequences. Most Doms will be as hard
                                           queue!), but also muscle, army and   as you say you want. This might be a
                                           occasionally leather. Skivvy has discovered  lot harder than what you really want
                                           that there are more fetishes around than   and need.
                                           he has had hot dinners. So whilst some
                                           activities seem normal and desirable (like a  Being a slave? That’s about both power
                                           kick up the arse or some muscle worship)   and control. It’s long term and either
                                           others remain completely alien (such as   evolves over time or fizzles out. It can
                                           heavy bondage, catheters, etc.).     be very rewarding though if you like a
                                                                                slow burn.
                                           Skivvy’s Bosses understand this. Every sub
                                           is different and they only like certain things.  Skivvy has been very good at choosing
                                           They may want to be ‘pushed’ but would   Doms with no really bad experiences.
                                           run a mile if something completely different  A big advantage of a pro dom is that he
                                           was offered. Indulging in one fetish can be   will do what you want (yes you are in
                                           a blast, in another it could be frightening   charge! -Ish. A casual encounter with a
                                           or disgusting.                       Dom may result in him just doing what
                                                                                he wants which might be something
                                           Such is the importance of Dom and Sub   quite different.
                                           discussing things properly first. And be
                                           careful what you wish for. Some fantasies   But don’t hold back.  Life’s too short.

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