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          Homeless for the Holidays:

            Many Americans Out in

                         the Cold



                          NBC News


          Some kids don’t want iPads, Xboxes or Frozen
          dolls for Christmas: They just want a place to
          call home.
                 New data point to a troubling rise in
          homelessness among America’s poor families,
          which means more kids will be figuratively —
          and sometimes literally — left out in the cold
          this holiday season.
                 “For   kids,   safety   comes    from
          predictability. They need routine in their lives,”
          said Carmela DeCandia, director of the National
          Center on Family Homelessness, which
          published a report last month finding that 2.5
          million kids — one in 30 — were homeless at
          some point last year.
                 “They’re in that constant state of
          trauma,” said Dan Fuller, vice president of
          legislative relations at nonprofit group
          Communities in Schools.                        say, and a big reason this epidemic hides in plain staying in a single room with a friend of Vest’s
                 This takes its toll on kids’ physical and  sight. Three-quarters of homeless kids start out — kids on a bunk bed, Vest on a sofa.
          mental health.                                 on a friend’s or relative’s extra bedroom, couch       Even with an administrative job, her
                                                         or floor, although these Good Samaritans are income wasn’t enough to pull the family back
          Senquasha Parks                                often poor themselves and have little extra to from the financial brink. “For the past five or six
                                                         offer. “Families often split up [and] it’s not years around Christmastime, we’ve been
                                                         uncommon for an entire family to have to share somewhere else,” Vest said. “I worked full-time
          By the time she was 13, Senquaesha Parks had
                                                         one room,” DeCandia said.                       every day and it just was not enough,” she said.
          developed digestive difficulties and high blood
                                                                 Most homeless families are headed by           This year, with the help of nonprofit
          pressure after years of homelessness. “All that
                                                         single moms, and around 40 percent of this group HomeStretch, a group that works with
          stress and pressure built up,” she said.
                                                         population lives below the poverty line. Since homeless families, Vest and her family, which
          “Honestly, sometimes I felt like I had no
                                                         the recession, the income gap has widened, now includes a month-old baby boy and the
          purpose, like I had no business being alive.”
                 Today, 18-year-old Parks is a freshman  leaving many poor families worse off, even as infant’s father — also her daughter’s father —
                                                         public assistance has been pared back.          have moved into a new home.  The two older
          at Georgia State University in  Atlanta, after
                                                                 Last year, the National Low Income kids are excited about decorating for Christmas
          counselors and caseworkers at Communities in
                                                         Housing Coalition found there was not a single — and having their own bedrooms.
          Schools intervened and provided support to help
                                                         state in which a person working a full-time job        “He always loved to kick his sister out,”
          the honors student make it through her senior
                                                         at minimum wage could afford to rent a two- Vest said of her son. “Now he can say to her,
          year. But for every story like Parks’, experts say
                                                         bedroom apartment. Even this many years after ‘Get out of my room.’”
          there are many homeless kids who just slip
                                                         the foreclosure crisis, experts say there’s an         Parks is also looking forward to a
          through the cracks.
                                                         unmet need for affordable rental housing.       merrier Christmas this year. She plans to go
                 “The key thing is this is vastly
          underreported,” Fuller said. “There’s a stigma         "It’s the lower-cost rental housing back to her aunt’s house over the holidays, but
                                                         product out there that’s being most impacted in coming back to school after the winter break
          attached to this.” Families also often want to
                                                         the current economy,” said Tom Deyo, national will be her homecoming.
          hide homelessness because it can mean that
                                                         spokesman for NeighborWorks  America, a                Parks cherishes the one Christmas
          they’re no longer in their kids’ school district,
                                                         group that supports affordable housing present she got last year, a handmade quilt in her
          creating more upheaval and threatening their
                                                         organizations around the country. The supply of school colors. It came to college with her, a
          academic performance.
                                                         affordable rentals is shrinking as demand is reminder of the transience she has finally left
                 This was the case for Parks. “It felt like I
                                                         rising, pushing rents out of reach of poor behind. “My dorm is my home now,” she said.
          had to stay quiet about my living situation or
                                                         families.                                       “It’s something I can call my own.” []
          how things were going,” she said. She
          shouldered her emotional burden largely alone          Domestic violence also can be a culprit.
                                                         Women may leave an abuser but then have
          because she worried that she would lose her
                                                         nowhere to go. As many as half of America’s
          Advanced Placement credits if administrators
                                                         homeless women say domestic violence has
          found out where she was living and made her
                                                         forced them onto the street.
          switch schools.
                 But sometimes these stories do make
                                                         Carmen Vest
          their way to the surface. One afternoon, when
          Parks missed the last bus and started the long
          walk home, another student offered her a ride.  When  Virginia resident Carmen  Vest was
          On that drive, the two girls learned they had  attacked and abducted at her workplace by a
                                                         former romantic partner last December, the 34-
          much more in common than either of them could
          have imagined.                                 year-old fled, leaving everything behind. “I was
                 “It turns out she’s going through the   in a safe house for a couple of months,” she said.
          same thing… living with her grandmother,”      “We were living in hotels and couch-surfing.”
          Parks said. “I never thought somebody with a           Last Christmas, her 13-year-old son was
          car, another honors student, was going through  living with a friend from school and her 6-year-
          the same thing.”                               old daughter was living with her father. Before
                 This is the most common pattern, experts  Vest’s assault, the three of them had been
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