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                 How Lying Works                          behavior. If a person normally makes no eye    Cold  War.  A good deal of it was meant to
                                                          contact and blinks like crazy but stares straight  influence public perception about the strengths
                                                          through you when answering a particular        and intentions of each country. Both nations
                  Continues from Page 31                  question, there's your red flag. Look for slight  tried to convince the other's populace that they
                                                          pauses before answers -- this is the amount of  were living in a corrupt society, while
                 Someone who's lying may feel attacked    time it takes their brain to fabricate data. The  simultaneously convincing its own citizens that
          and get in a defensive position. He or she might  liar may act offended at being questioned at all  the other nation was on the verge of attack. Each
          turn away from the questioner, cross his or her  but suddenly quite affable when the lie is being  nation inflated the military might of the other in
          arms or even move farther away. Liars may       told, or vice versa.                           order to keep their citizens preoccupied with
          noticeably fidget, especially during a pause in        - Listen. Sometimes, there will be no   fear, and also to justify increased arms and
          the conversation.                               body language or visual cues that accompany a  defense expenditures.
                 There are other nonverbal cues that      lie. You have to rely on the verbal information       Sex scandals. Former U.S. President
          many people think are surefire signs of lying but  you receive. Do the facts add up? Is the person  John F. Kennedy covered up his extramarital
          aren't, such as increased blinking, scratching the  telling you lots of information that is unrelated  affairs, and plenty of other politicians have done
          face or nose, or placing a hand over the mouth  to the question? If someone provides lots of   the same. U.S. Sen. Strom Thurmond, a devout
          while speaking.  These signs are only good      details, ask more questions. These details might  segregationist for much of his political career,
          indicators when they represent a change in the  be their undoing. After getting into the nitty-  fathered a child when he was 22 with an
          person's normal behavior (that is, the behavior  gritty of the details, bounce the questioning  African-American woman who worked for his
          immediately preceding the suspected lie).       back to the overall time frame or arc of the   family. In 1998, then- President Bill Clinton
                 Maybe the guy who's blinking a lot has   story. Now, refocus on a small detail. Does the  announced to the world, "I did not have sexual
          an eyelash in his eye, and the girl covering her  story still fit together? Is the person having to  relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky,"
          mouth is just self-conscious; however, if the   create new details to explain why other details  referring to  White House intern Monica
          person doesn't blink often during the first three  aren't fitting well into the arc of the story?  Lewinsky, with whom he had sexual relations.
          statements and blinks like crazy and scratches  - Pause. For most people, lying -- and the            Lies in the media. Reporter Jayson
          his or her neck while giving the fourth         circumstance that necessitates the telling of a lie  Blair's tenure at the New York Times goes down
          statement, then that statement warrants closer  -- is stressful. If you're questioning somebody,  in infamy. In 2003, the 27-year-old admitted he
          examination.                                    pause between one of his or her answers and    fabricated dozens of stories, made up quotes and
                 Someone telling a lie will also leak     your next question. Pauses are slightly        filed reports from cities around the nation when
          verbal clues that point to dishonesty. Since he or  uncomfortable for most people in a social  he was actually still in New York.
          she has to invent an answer, a lie-teller will  interaction, and much more so for a person who        - Spies' lies. In 1986, CIA analyst
          often spend more time searching for the right   is trying to pass off a lie. This pause may seem  Aldrich  Ames had just started betraying his
          word in the course of telling a story. The person  like a torturous eternity to a liar. Look for  country by selling classified information to the
          might take too long to provide an answer or get  fidgeting,   defensive     posturing    and   Soviets when he learned he was scheduled to
          words mixed up. To get extra time to think, a   microexpressions.                              take a routine lie detector test. Nervous, Ames
          liar won't use contractions (opting for "cannot"       - Change the subject. The best news a   contacted his Soviet handlers for advice,
          instead of "can't") and may also repeat questions  liar can receive is that the lie is over. When the  figuring (rightly so) that if anyone knew how to
          ("Where was I last night?" or "You want to      person believes the topic of conversation has  beat an American lie detector test, it would be
          know what I was doing yesterday?").             changed, he or she may be visibly relieved. A  the Soviets. The answer the Soviets gave Ames
                 Since they have to create an alternate   nervous person may loosen up; an agitated      seemed alarmingly simple, but Ames knew his
          reality apart from the truth, liars have difficulty  person may smile. This tactic also allows you to  value to the Soviets was so high that they
          knowing how much of the new story to tell and   continue studying for deviations from the      wouldn't give him a flippant response. []
          will often include unnecessary details.         baseline or to look for a return to the baseline.
                 Next, we'll learn what to do if the glove       In the next section, we'll take a look at  DID YOU KNOW...
          fits.                                           some famous lies.                                         ANCIENT EATING


          How to Tell If Someone is Lying                 History Lies                                     - In Ancient Rome, it was considered a sin to
                                                                                                           eat w woodpecker.
          If you were accused of murder, you'd be under   How long have humans been lying? (Don't ask
          enormous pressure to lie if you were guilty. The  us, we'll probably lie.) There have been so many  -  The first archaeological evidence of soup
          stakes are high, and that kind of pressure can  massive lies throughout history that it's        dates back to 6000 BC. The main ingredient
          lead to physical cues that will give you away. A  impossible to keep up with them all. Here are a  was hippopotamus.
          person serving a life sentence for murder,      few whoppers of notoriety:
          however, would feel virtually no pressure when         Wartime propaganda.  A common lie         -  The oldest sample of chewing gum was
          lying about the murder because he or she is     weaved throughout history is the lie that        found in Sweden in 1993. The 9,000-year-old
          already in prison -- there won't be any further  precedes an unprovoked act of aggression. The   glob of honey-sweetened resin still contained
          consequences for lying. In this case, it's the  Nazis made use of this tactic before the German  tooth marks.
          verbal details, and not body language, that will  invasion of Poland. A series of mock attacks on
          likely be his or her undoing.                   various German border stations set the stage for  - Roman did not eat sitting up - that was
                 Here's how you separate the liars from   a "defensive" swarming into Polish territory.    considered extremely bad manners. They ate
          the truth-tellers:                                     In August 1964, there were two reported   laying down on couches around the table.
                 - Establish the baseline. Liars may look  incidents of North  Vietnamese naval attacks
          you directly in the eye, and truth-tellers may be  against United States ships in the Gulf of    - In the 13th century, quality standards for
          fidgety and seem evasive, so don't look for one  Tonkin, off the coast of Vietnam. The second    pasta were set by the pope.
          trait or the other. First, establish the person's  attack, which reportedly occurred two days after
          behaviors, mood and mannerisms for that         the first attack, never happened.  The initial   - Romans flavored food with garum, a paste
          particular point in time, before the questioning  reports were the result of bad weather and faulty  made by leaving fish to rot for several weeks.
          begins. Is the person relaxed or nervous?       sonar and radar readings. Even though there
          Angry? Distracted? Notice how much eye          were near-immediate doubts about the event,      - Pepper was so valuable during Elizabethan
          contact and blinking is going on. Does the      the supposed attacks were used as justification  times that it was sold by the individual grain.
          person touch his or her hands or face when      for the Lyndon B. Johnson administration to
          speaking?                                       initiate military strikes against North          - The ancient Romans had soft drinks of root
                 - Look for deviations from the baseline.  Vietnamese forces.                              juices and water.
          The key to detecting lies is to look for               Both the United States and the Soviet
          deviations from an established pattern of       Union disseminated propaganda during the                    www.rel-mar.com/didyouknow
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