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JACOBKUTTY & FAMILY
                                           her friends decided to go back
                                           home to Mallappally. They had to
                                           trudge 20 kms or so back home.
                                           There weren’t any proper roads,
                                           and they just figured their way
                                           out through footpaths, weaving
                                           their way by entering people’s
                                           properties. As expected, they lost
                                           their way and found themselves
                                           in Changanassery as dusk started
                                           settling in. Anyway, she managed
                                           to reach home after asking people
                                           for directions. This seemed like
                                           great adventure for me, but her
                                           matter-of-fact way of speaking
                                           and nonchalance was an endear-
                                           ing quality in all her stories. She
                                           never made a hullabaloo about

          were there cars around in Mallap-  anything.  She simply accepted
          pally, the town nearby? Was her   life as it presented itself to her.
          life affected by the presence of   For her, persistence and consis-
          the British, then ruling in India?   tency were the key.
          Did she have electricity at home?   I also noticed how adaptable
          She would patiently listen to my   she was. She would quietly rise
          questions, chuckle, reminiscence   to the occasion. When Appachen
          and joggle her memory to start   was alive, he was a commanding
          her story.                       figure, and she would be in the
             Her tales were down to earth   backseat, quietly working for the
          and colourful and I could easily   family. But when he passed away
          visualise that she had lived life   at the ripe age of 92, Ammaachy
          to the fullest. One was about an   didn’t skip a beat; she immediate-
          adventure she had while in board-  ly stepped into his “over-sized”
          ing school in Nicholson school in   shoes and became the family’s
          Thiruvalla. One morning, she and   anchor. Her vision for her family
                                           was touching -- “I want all of you

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