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Negotiations which end up being one-sided, and you’re the one
                              who doesn’t usually benefit from it.

                              Attempts to intimidate you verbally.
                              Team projects where you find yourself taking on more
                              responsibility than others who are just as capable of sharing the
                              workload but somehow don’t.
                              Exposure to passive-aggressive behavior.

                              Feeling wrong-footed or being left in the dark about what’s
                              going on until the very last minute.
                              Feeling out of the loop on the important decisions that get made,

                              realizing too late that you weren’t privy to certain information.
                              Rumors or gossip being circulated around the office, trying to
                              put one colleague against another.
                              There always seems to be more confusion than solutions after
                              you’ve had a talk with them.

                              Colleagues who refuse to admit their mistakes and attempt to
                              cover it up by shifting the blame to someone else, even though
                              they were clearly in the wrong.




                What makes these manipulators so dangerous is that these tactics
                sometimes don’t stop at the office alone. You may even be surrounded by

                such individuals in within your immediate circle of friends or family, except

                that it's much harder to see them for who they are and what they’re doing

                because, on some level, you don’t want to believe that these people whom

                you care about could resort to such behavior. Sadly, these people exist all
                around us, and it is only when we wake up and pay attention to the

                following evidence that we start to realize our lives may be surrounded by

                more manipulators than we would like to admit, and the 13 laws of

                manipulation could be happening to you right this minute:



                              They Build Your Confidence - Only to tear you down when it
                              works in their favor. When you’re meeting someone for the first
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