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help for it. Many writers’ means of earning a living depends on its cure. The

               “block” (or lack of self-motivation) occurs not because the writer can’t write, but
               because the writer thinks he can’t write well. In other words, the writer thinks he
               doesn’t  have  the  proper  energy  or  inspiration  to  write  something,  right  now,
               that’s good enough to submit. So the pessimistic voice inside the writer says,
               “You can’t think of anything to write, can you?” This happens to many of us,
               even  with  something  as  small  as  a  postcard  to  send,  or  an  overdue  e-mail  to
               answer. But the writer doesn’t really need psychotherapy for this. All he or she
               needs is an understanding of how the human mind is working at the moment of
               the “block.” The cure for writer’s block—and also the road to self-motivation—
               is simple. The cure is to go ahead and write badly.

                    Novelist  Anne  Lamott  has  a  chapter  in  her  marvelous  book  Bird  by  Bird
               called “Shitty First Drafts.” The key to writing, she says, is to just start typing

               anything—  it  can  be  the  worst  thing  you’ve  ever  written,  it  doesn’t  matter.
               “Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts,” says Lamott. “You
               need  to  start  somewhere.  Start  by  getting  something—anything—down  on
               paper.” By the mere act of typing you have disempowered the pessimistic voice
               that tried to convince you not to write. Now you are writing. And once you’re in
               action, it’s easy to pick up the energy and pick up the quality.

                    We’re  often  afraid  to  do  things  until  we’re  sure  we’ll  do  them  well.
               Therefore we don’t do anything. This tendency led G.K. Chesterton to say, “If a
               thing is worth doing, it’s worth doing badly.”

                    Going out for a run gives me an example of the same phenomenon. Because
               I don’t feel that I have a good, strong run in me, the voice says “not today.” But

               the cure for that is to decide to do it anyway—even if it will be a bad run. “I
               don’t feel like running now, so I’m going to go out and run slowly, in such lazy,
               bad form that it does me no good, but at least I will have run.” But once I start,
               something always happens to alter my feelings about the run. By the end of the
               run, I notice that it had somehow become thoroughly enjoyable.

                    In  my  self-motivation  seminars,  I  often  give  a  homework  assignment  for
               people to write down what their main goals are for the next year. I ask them to
               fill no more than half a page. This is not a difficult assignment for people who
               are willing to just come off the top of their heads and have fun filling the page.
               But  you  would  be  surprised  at  how  many  people  absolutely  anguish  over  it,
               trying to get it “right,” as if they were going to be held forever to what they
               wrote  down.  Many  people  simply  can’t  do  it.  To  get  them  to  complete  the
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