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not just about selfish personal achievement. In his autobiography, They Call Me

               Coach, he mentions an element vital to creating each day.

                    “You  cannot  live  a  perfect  day,”  he  said,  “without  doing  something  for
               someone who will never be able to repay you.”

                    I agree with that. But there’s a way to make sure you can’t be repaid—and
               that’s doing something for someone who won’t even know who did it. This gets
               into a theory I’ve had all my life, that you can create luck in your life. Not from
               the idea that luck is needed for success, because it isn’t. But from the idea that
               luck can be a welcome addition to your life. You can create luck for yourself by
               creating  it  for  someone  else.  If  you  know  about  someone  who  is  hurting
               financially, and you arrange for a few hundred dollars to arrive at their home,
               and  they  don’t  even  know  who  you  are,  then  you’ve  made  them  lucky.  By
               making someone lucky, something will then happen in your own life that also

               feels like pure luck. (I can’t explain why this happens, and I have no scientific
               basis for it, so all I can say is try it a few times and see if you aren’t as startled as
               I have been at the results…it doesn’t have to be money, either. We have a lot of
               other things to give, always.)

                    When you get lucky, you’ll get more motivated, because you feel like the
               universe is more on your side. Experiment with this a little. Don’t be imprisoned
               by cynicism posing as rationality on this subject. See what happens to you when
               you make other people get lucky.





               67. Play the circle game


                    If you use my four-minute, four-circle, goal-setting system described earlier,
               you can be the creator of your universe.

                    “You know, that’s blasphemous,” a seminar student once told me during a
               break. “Only God can create the universe.”


                    “But if you believe that,” I said, “you must also believe as it is written, that
               we were all created in God’s image. And if you believe in God as the Creator,
               and that He created us in His image, then what are we doing when we  don’t
               create? Whose image are we living in when we deliberately do not create?”

                    Try this: After you wake up in the morning, wipe the sleep from your eyes,
               sit  down  with  a  pad  of  paper,  and  draw  four  circles.  These  are  your  own
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