Page 54 - June 2021 Issue.indd

Protecting Children Jones points to how easy it is now to explain that adults and parents need
to transmit data on the Internet – to consider the same question. Over-
From Online Sexual whether it’s photographs, identifi cation sharing and posting lots of information
Exploitation information, or one’s location. Th ere are about your life and the lives of your
new applications every day that provide children, may not always be safe. He
For All Seasons Rape Crisis Center ways to share information and meet states, “So really what it comes down
is continually looking for ways to people like never before. to is just because you can share all this
raise awareness about sexual assault. information doesn’t mean you should.”
“Let’s understand that there is a group of
According to the National Sexual
people out there using social media for The NSVRC suggests the following tips

Violence Resource Center (NSVRC),
exactly what our greatest fear is. Th ey we can share with our children to protect
sexual harassment, assault, and abuse
are looking for kids. They are meeting them against online sexual harassment

can happen anywhere, including online
kids, they are grooming kids, and they and abuse:
spaces. During Sexual Assault Awareness
are trying to create situations where
Month in April, NSVRC was educating Practice Consent and Show Respect
they can have sexual relationships with
the public about safer ways to be online. for Boundaries:
these underage kids. And sometimes
Some of the organization’s tips relate to
these kids don’t survive the encounter,” • It’s never okay to try to unlock
how we connect online, how we practice
he adds. someone else’s phone without
digital consent and intervening when we
permission or look through their
see harmful content or behaviors online Because Jones points out that children
to ensure that online spaces, whether can access the Internet from so many inbox or texts
they be workspaces, classrooms, social devices now – laptops for schoolwork, • Check if it’s okay before sharing
media platforms, or otherwise, are iPads for games, their phones, and even information outside of your one-
respectful and safe. now Smart TVs, that parents have to be on-one chat
vigilant in monitoring online activity. • Agreeing on a platform and
During the pandemic, there has been an
increased risk for keeping children safe Another factor during the pandemic giving options when communi-
online and preventing online trauma as is that children, in general, have more cating like letting everyone know
they participate in virtual school and time on their hands and perhaps less it’s okay to leave their webcam off
communicate with friends digitally supervision than before when they were during a video call
through online apps instead of in physically in school and participating in Share the Red Flags of Online
person. While there may be uncertainty extracurricular activities. Parents need Grooming:
about how much we will be online in to be aware that kids can have multiple
the future, one thing we know is that by social media accounts and they may be • Asking to keep the relationship
teaching our children to interact with showing the parent one account while secret
each other more respectfully and safely, hiding activity on another. • Making suggestive or sexual
we can help prevent sexual assault and “I think that if parents would just talk comments
abuse online. to their kids about the two sides – two • Asking the child about their
types of problems that really plague us
Bill Jones, Dorchester County State’s sexual background (have they
the most, which are the transmission
Attorney, recently spoke with For All been kissed, are they a virgin,
of data, photographs, videos, things
Seasons staff about preventing sexual etc.)

like that and the meeting of people.
abuse among children who experience • Sending links to suggestive
Because the meeting of people, that’s
greater exposure to risks online images, memes, or porn
not a temporary thing, that is a means
today. Jones and his Victim Witness
to something else, that is a means to • Asking the child to only contact
Coordinator, Patti Dickerson McMahon,
an actual physical meeting up . . . so them on certain apps
work with For All Seasons Rape Crisis

it’s something that starts off small, and

Center staff in supporting sexual assault The Maryland Coalition Against Sexual

then it snowballs into a situation that’s
survivors who are working within the Assault (MCASA) suggests that because
dangerous for everybody,” he adds.
judicial system in Dorchester County. children are now spending more and
Jones suggests posing the question to more time online, on social media, the
“The Internet has created the opportunity

young people, “Why would you want Internet, and online games, parents
for so many things, and so many of those
the whole world to know where you need to be aware of the risk of online
things are good, and so many of those
are all the time when it includes people predators even more. They suggest
things are bad. And in virtually every
who you don’t know at all?” He adds parents pay attention to what online
type of crime, you can imagine there is
that when you do this, you are not platforms their children are using and
some Internet involvement,” comments
only placing yourself in jeopardy, but stay alert to any signs of distress linked
Jones.
your friends, your family members, with their children’s online activity.
and everything else. Jones continues
54