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29 The Big Book of Self-Help Tips - Coach Hite U

122 Work More Than One Job

Because times are hard, why not work two jobs? Pick one that is fun and another that
pays well. It will not only keep you amused but will definitely keep you afloat.

123 Change Your Lifestyle

When you see yourself unable to get back on track, better re-think the way you live.
By resisting to change your lifestyle will not only limit your choices for a new job but
also it will probably leave you with more debt.

Guilty As Charged: When The Problem Is You

124 Accept The Blame

In real life, accepting the blame may not be that easy to handle but refuting the
allegations only messes things up too. Help the situation by not only accepting the
charges but also cooperating with the authorities to resolve the issue.

125 Do Not Make Up Stories

It is but natural for people at fault to fabricate lies. It is a common reaction but yet
again, it only stalls solving the problem.

126 Give In To An Intervention

Again, this may not be easy as it sounds but you must recognize that people are only
trying to help you get better. If you are with children, think about how the situation
may be interfering with their lives.

127 Offer The Truth

A situation is never resolved with just catching culprits red-handed. In fact, if you
find yourself in such situations, always explain yourself. Not that it would take the
blame out of your hands but at least, it would shed a better light on why it happened
to you.

128 Subject To Correction

Rehabilitation does not occur within days. In fact, depending on the severity, you
might even be sent to prison, treatment facility or detained in your own house.
Either way, punishing you for it is often the only effective way of making you realize
what you committed.

129 Do Not Lose Hope

Hoping for a better ending is not a crime. Wanting a way out of the situation is not
bad either because honestly, it will all happen in time. Hope is not a bad thing to
hold onto, in fact, it may just be what keeps you alive.

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