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END OF THE ROAD: Zoning In On What You Have

191 Take Control of Your Life

Enough with all the what-ifs and what not and simply take over your ideals and make
them real. If you want a new job, then find one instead of procrastinating and
spending all daydreaming about how well you are going to do in your interviews and
evaluations.

192 Discipline Yourself

If you do not want to be fat, then watch what you eat. If you want a higher salary,
then work on impressing the boss and if you want to start anew, better start acting
on it.

193 Tame Your Temper

Take over your annoyance over someone or something. Divert your attention to
something else instead of dwelling on your growing irritation. Or better yet, know
when to walk away.

194 Be Concerned

Wake up to the reality that you have to care to find your niche. No matter how much
you say that you can exist on your own, or that you do not care – you may just end up
fooling yourself. The human society may not be as traditional as before but standards
still exist and you may just have to know how to act appropriately.

195 Take A Day Off

One of the reasons why people fail big time is because they do not know when to
take a break. If you are on your second shot at life, then take a day or two to catch
your breathe, relax and just see where you are going.

196 Eat Some Chocolate

Like Elle said, “and because happy people just do not kill each other.” Chocolates are
simply the tastiest addictive substance there is. It feeds the ego, provides nutrients
and of course, always brings surprises.

197 Be Responsible

You cannot blame it all on the economy, supervisors or colleagues. Make up for what
you lack and double your efforts if you want to create a brighter future for yourself.

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