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130    CHAPTER 5                Social Groups and Formal Organizations

                                          Before we analyze groups, we should clarify the concept. Two terms sometimes
                                       confused with group are aggregate and category. An aggregate consists of people who
                                       temporarily share the same physical space but who do not see themselves as belonging
                                       together. Shoppers standing in a checkout line or drivers waiting at a red light are an
                                       aggregate. A category is simply a statistic. It consists of people who share similar char-
                                       acteristics, such as all college women who wear glasses or all men over 6 feet tall. Unlike
                                       group members, the individuals who make up a category don’t think of themselves as
                                       belonging together and they don’t interact with one another. These concepts are illus-
                                       trated in the photos on the next page.
                                          Groups are so influential that they determine who we are. If you think that this is
                                       an exaggeration, recall what you read in Chapter 3, that even your mind is a product
                                       of society—or, more specifically phrased, of the groups to which you belong. To better
                                       understand the influence of groups on your life, let’s begin by looking at the types of
                                       groups that make up our society.

                                       Primary Groups
                                       As you will recall from Chapter 3, a major point about socialization is that you didn’t
                                       develop “naturally” into a human adult. Your social experiences shaped you into what
                                       you have become. In this shaping process, it is hard to overestimate how significant your
                                       family has been. It was your family that laid down your basic orientations to life. Then
                                       came friends, where your sense of belonging expanded. Family and friends are what soci-
                                       ologist Charles Cooley called primary groups. By providing intimate, face-to-face inter-
                                       action, your primary groups have given you an identity, a feeling of who you are. Here’s
                                       how Cooley (1909) put it:
                                          By primary groups I mean those characterized by intimate face-to-face association and co-
                                          operation. They are primary in several senses, but chiefly in that they are fundamental in
                                          forming the social nature and ideals of the individual.

                                          From our opening vignette, you can see that youth gangs are also primary groups.
                                       Producing a Mirror Within.  We humans have intense emotional needs. Among them
                                       are a sense of belonging and feelings of self-esteem. Because primary groups provide intense
                                       face-to-face interaction as we are being introduced to the world, they are uniquely equipped
                                       to meet these basic needs. They can make us feel appreciated—even that we are loved.
                                       When primary groups are dysfunctional, however, and fail to meet these basic needs, they
                                       produce dysfunctional adults, wounded people who make life difficult for others.
                                          Regardless of the levels at which your primary groups have functioned—and not
                                       one is perfect—their values and attitudes have become fused into your identity. You
                                       have internalized their views, which are now lenses through which you view life. Even
                                       as an adult—no matter how far you move away from your childhood roots—your early
        aggregate individuals who tempo-  primary groups will remain “inside” you. There, they will continue to form part of the
        rarily share the same physical space   perspective from which you look out onto the world. Your primary groups have become
        but who do not see themselves as   your mirror within.
        belonging together
        category people, objects, and
        events that have similar characteris-  Secondary Groups
        tics and are classified together  Compared with primary groups, secondary groups are larger, more anonymous, and
        primary group a small group    more formal and impersonal. These groups are based on shared interests or activities,
        characterized by intimate, long-  and their members are likely to interact on the basis of specific statuses, such as presi-
        term, face-to-face association and   dent, manager, worker, or student. Examples include college classes, the American
        cooperation                    Sociological Association, and political parties. Contemporary society could not function
        secondary group compared with   without secondary groups. They are part of the way we get our education, make our liv-
        a primary group, a larger, relatively   ing, spend our money, and use our leisure time.
        temporary, more anonymous, for-   As necessary as secondary groups are for contemporary life, they often fail to satisfy
        mal, and impersonal group based   our deep needs for intimate association. Consequently, secondary groups tend to break
        on some interest or activity
                                       down into primary groups. At school and work, we form friendships. Our interaction
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