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many of us have forgoen simple, fundamental principles of always speaking soly and sweetly in a supportive and loving way. “You don’t always have to oblige, but you should always speak obligingly,” says Swami.
Four Important “No’s”
The first no is that there are no intermediaries between Swami and the devotee. This understanding throws the emphasis of our spiritual progress squarely on our own shoulders. We are responsible for the level of our commitment, for exercising the discrimination necessary in our choice of action, for the initiation and follow-through of our activity, and for our sensibility and balance as we travel the spiritual path. No one else is responsible.
The second no is no asking for money. There is to be as lile to do with money as possible in the organization.
The third no is non-violence. Buddha said that the highest dharma is non-violence. One aspect of this teaching, of course, is to not be physically violent towards anyone. In its broadest sense it means to relate with others without violence in thought, word, and deed, and without selfish interests. Swami instructs, “Love all; serve all.” He teaches to not ask anything of anyone, only give selflessly and ask everything from God.
The fourth no is no proselytizing. Swami repeatedly reminds us that we know very lile about who he is; we don’t even know who we are. We have no business telling others what they should do. We have all we can do to understand ourselves, be under control, act selflessly, and uphold dharma. If our life has good meaning and purpose, others will follow the example. He reminds us, “My life is my message.”
Dharma Builds Conscience and Character
Dharmic community building raises consciousness, reduces ego, and improves our character. Working toward unity and
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