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Social Emotional Learning (SEL)


                                                        Fear




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            Fear, a 1 syllable word that holds a terrifying (in   wanted but as the years passed by, a throbbing in
            a literal sense) yet a vague meaning. A word that   her chest wouldn’t let go of her. She always tried
            revolves around a variety of versions of a certain   to figure out what it was but at the end of the day
            emotion. Fear is caused by the threat of harm,     she couldn’t find a conclusion.  Again, as years
            real or imagined. People fear many things in this    passed by, she started growing up learning about
            world. The fear paradox itself was one known as    things that she had never encountered before.
            cowardice and abjectness in the ancient time. In   Illness, happiness, death, she knew about all of
            this day of age, it can be rather comprehended     these components of life. Until one day, during
            as an act of trauma, disorders or simply an emo-   the humid weather whilst the wind breeze by,
            tion. Likewise, there are also those who believe   the news of her relative’s death struck her. She
            that nothing scares them but in reality are just   had the information of his reason of death as it
            ignoring the true feelings. There are also others   was expected. Cancer, a disease, was the reason
            who simply don’t realise their fear as they wan-   for such an outcome. That was the first time in
            der about covering it with a cape of bravery until   which  she  witnessed death. People were  shed-
            their final moments where they truly understand    ding tears of the loss of their beloved one whilst
            the journey of life and  denotation of death. In   she sat in a corner with her other cousins and
            relation to the statement, this is the process of   watched the scene unfold. No, she did not cry,
            how a girl learned how to control her fear and     she was not sad and that was what seemed so off
            gain the acknowledgement of what comes after       putting about this. She clearly inferred the situa-
            that.                                              tion but still couldn’t feel anything. She thought,
                                                               “Oh, maybe it’s because I have not known them
            On October 30th, 2007 in the country of Tu-        for a long time.” But, on the inside it was a whole
            valu, Oceania, a girl was born. You know how       different story. After this incident, time flew by
            the story goes, she grew up as a happy child, no   and the pandemic struck. At the beginning ev-
            problems whatsoever. She had everything she        erything seemed fine but as months went by, a
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