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It is an irony that the more possessive you are, the more love you will demand, the less you will receive; while the more freedom you give, the less you
demand, the more love you will receive. Take great pleasure in watching your love partner be fully free and fully alive!
Encourage each other to widen your circle of friends. Each seek to ever expand your horizons. Enjoy celebrating life together and with friends!
Know that if you expect to be the only person who matters to you love partner you are setting yourself up for disappointment. As wonderful as true love can
be, no one person can meet all your needs. Your love partner is, and should always be your very best friend, and she is not your only friend.
Fully expect your love partner to have other passionate interests other than you. To extend the freedom to develop her own interests in other people and
hobbies can only empower your relationship. Freedom can never confine. It can never be detrimental to the relationship. It can only open up many exciting
and previously undiscovered opportunities to enjoy life.
When your love partner is pursuing areas in which she excels, she is happy. You will enjoy her most when she is happy. People are easier to love when they
are happy.
Trust should be forever present in your love relationship; trust and deep commitment to each other, and loyalty and devotion. This allows us the freedom to
care about people of the opposite sex and to enjoy friendships with them, and when you sit down together in the evening to share the events of the day, you
do not have to ask if our love partner has been faithful.
The stronger and more secure you become, the more you are willing to be yourselves while encouraging your love partner to do the same.
Genuine unconditional love not only respects the individuality of the other but actually seeks to cultivate it, even at the risk of separation or loss. The
ultimate goal remains the spiritual growth of your love partner, the solitary journey to peaks that can be climbed only alone.
Believe that no matter how committed your relationship, you will always be "single" as well as a part of a couple. Unconditional love is a special, intense
connection, and it is not an answer to all or even most individual problems. No one can make you happy but you.
THE POWER OF LOVE
Most of us at sometime or other ask ourselves “What am I here for?” “What’s my purpose in life?” “Where did I come from, where am I going ?”
At some time or another, we all ponder the reasons for our human existence.
When you look back over your life, you will discover that your most precious assets are the thoughts and memories of the people you have loved and who have Page352
loved you.