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sion about what kind of day you are going to    day, becomes
         Attitude is                                     have and hold to it all day. Allow yourself to   who and what

                                                                                                         you are. Here are
                                                         see that it works.
                                                                                                         some all too

         Everything                                      Now I know what some of you are thinking.       common exam-
                                                                                                         ples:
                                                         Why should I do this. I don’t believe in this
                                                         kind of mental magic. I’m not so egotistical,
                                                         that I believe I’m in control of my life. I’m not   I’m not a morn-
          You can do it.
                                                         doing it. I would feel silly.                   ing person
         Do you want to be happier, healthier, more suc-                                                        You are convinced of this and are there
         cessful, play better Bocce, be more confident   OK, fine. Don’t do it, However, by not doing it,       fore justified to be ineffective until after
         about money, or  just have more peace and joy   you’re still doing it. You set your course. Your       lunch.
         in your life. You can and you can start now. It’s
                                                         not in control. This stuff doesn’t work for you
         never too late.                                 because you will see to it that it doesn’t. That’s   If he does ____,  I will be so angry
         I started in early 1984. My attitude manifested   why attitude is everything. It always works.         And often he does and you’re set to
         as anger, hostility, combativeness, sarcasm, and  Your attitude manifests in every direction and       blow
         a generally hard-to-deal with guy. There were a  reflects back to you. Good creates good. Bad   I’m worthless until I get my coffee
         lot of steps between then and now, some in-     creates bad.                                           This is easy to handle, just get the cof
         volved religion, some did not. Eventually, I be-                                                       fee. No coffee – change your thinking.
         came less and less angry.
                                                         For me personally, good creates good. Maybe I   I’m no good at math
         Can you do it? Yes you can! And you don’t       slip occasionally, but not for long. I catch my-
         have to be even half as nasty as I was. A mental  self as quickly as possible and I’m back on          And so it is. Now you don’t even have
         overhaul lasting 29 years and counting can’t be  track.                                                to try.
         summed up in one article and maybe not in one                                                   I can’t do stuff like that
                                                         Start Your Day Off Right. Decide to have a
         book.
                                                         good day. Have a good day. Boy, that was sim-          This will render you incompetent. Now
         However, here is one of the most vital things I   ple. This month a little more complex but not        someone else has to do it.
                                                         really. More like, a lot of people - me at one
         have learned in that time.
                                                                                                         I’m not that smart
                                                         time - don’t always think this way.
         Rule 1 – Start Your Day Out Right                                                                      Same as above. Now someone smarter
                                                                                                                can get paid for doing this work.
         Start be setting the course of your day. Do you   Rule 2 – The universe always says yes
         want to have a good day or do you want to have   Your subconscious mind supports you in every-  I’m too old
         a bad day? Ask yourself every morning when      thing you say and do. You may not agree with           This one can accelerate your trip to the
         you wake up, “What kind of day do I want to     this because you’re not completely aware of the        Pearly Gates.
         have today?” If your answer is “A good day”,    instructions you issue about yourself and your   And you may be able to watch your children
         then you have set your course Go out there and   condition every day. There is a little voice in the   and grandchildren perform this self-sabotage
         do it. Enjoy it.                                back of your head that always agrees with every   because so many of them don’t realize what
         If you answered “I don’t care.” Or the classic   thing you think or say. If you say “I feel rotten.”   they are doing.
         “Whatever” or maybe you simply shrugged.        The little voice says OK, I support that. And so,   It goes on all day. Remember Rule 2,  you are
         Then buckle up. Be prepared for anything that   until something comes along to change this, you   being supported in everything you say every
         might come along, you just turned this day over  will feel rotten. If you say “I feel great.”, the   step of the way. The most important thing I can
         to Fate. I think most people don’t even ask the   little voice says OK, I support that. Now you   tell you is that you are much more powerful
         question. I think that what most people do is   feel great.                                     than you could imagine. Everyone is. It’s just
         nothing at all. They just get up, charge into the   Warning, don’t do this just one time and then   that ‘everyone’ is constantly claiming and de-
         day, and then complain about the results.       come and tell me it doesn’t work. You may       claring their limitations and being fully support-

         Now if your answer is “A bad day.”, then        have to practice this repeatedly. Mental trans-  ed in each and every one of them.
                                                         formation is a process of continual improve-
         you’re almost certain to get your wish.                                                         Just stop it.
                                                         ment. It is not a light switch.

                                                                                                         Everything you declare for yourself is or will
         This may sound so simple and it is. But the     Rule 3 – Don’t program yourself for failure     eventually become true for you. Just declare
         truth of the matter is, very few people do this   Especially when I was still working, I ran into   what you want for yourself, not what you don’t.
         daily exercise. Not enough people are aware     this all the time. Elevators are a great place to
         that, not only is this kind of thinking possible, it   observe the human condition. What you declare
         is also effective. It works. Make a serious deci-  for yourself, particularly when you do it every   Carl Lorentzen, Club Resident
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