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Harun Yahya (Adnan Oktar)

tion of the man providing those to her and would try every pos-
sible means not to lose her husband. This is nothing but a mutual
life contract based on personal interests and social rules. This
kind of marriage is not actually very different from an agreement
made for any kind of temporary service. The only difference is in
the duration of the validity of the agreement. This marriage is
calculated to last for a longer time, maybe for a lifetime. Neither
partner want to accept this truth, but when they see there is no
love and respect in their relationship, but only role playing, they
admit the true nature of their marriage to be a "reality of life".
When one spouse reneges on fulfilling his/her duties as this
agreement requires, their marriage shatters.
There is the concept of "marriage by logic." It means that
couples may get married if certain standards are met by the two
parties, although love and sincere intimacy are not involved.
Love is something temporary anyway and it is to die sooner or
later. So, there's no need to be in love with the person you marry.
As may easily be understood, in this kind of marriages the com-
mon sharing point is not love, but money, and mutual benefits.
Even sexuality, after a period of time, is considered to be a boring
act, since spouses get used to each other. And even love has a dis-
torted meaning when it is involved in the relationship. It is based
on certain materialistic criteria. Young girls easily fall in love
with those "cool guys" with "red sports cars". Their being irreli-
gious person does not really matter. Since no morality as de-
scribed in true religion is involved, the ensuing rooted in
iniquity.
It is obvious that in these marriages, concepts such as loy-

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