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use disorders. The training also teaches how to
        respond to those in crisis using a five step action
        plan. This training can help save lives and provide
        support to family, friends, coworkers and commu-
        nity members.



        HL: What are some challenges you face as an
        individual who has a podcast show?

        Being a one-woman-show and not having a team
        can be difficult when you have to develop weekly
        content for the show, produce it, create marketing/
        promotional materials, promote it, reach out and
        follow-up with guests. Honestly, it is easy to start
        a podcast. The hard part is staying consistent with
        creating a set schedule when you are doing it all
        by yourself, especially when you live with a mental
        health condition(s).

                                                               •  Ask yourself, what do I enjoy doing and how

        HL: What made you start Fireflies Unite with               does it make me feel?
        Kea podcast and what do you want listeners             •  Ask yourself, what do I dislike doing and why?
        to take away when they hear your podcast?                  How does it make me feel?

        I started the podcast because it felt free to share    •  Remember having a purpose is not only about                      HL: What are your thoughts about access to             HL: What advice can you share for someone
        my story. I was so liberated. I also wanted to afford      doing one thing, more than one thing can be a                   mental health resources in the black commu-            who struggles with mental health issues, who
        others the opportunities to share their truth, show        part of your purpose. Your purpose will evolve                  nity?                                                  is not in treatment at this time?
        others they are not alone, build a community and           as you experience life and that’s okay.
        end the stigma in black and brown communities.                                                                             There aren’t enough resources in the community
        I want listeners to see themselves in the stories  •  Seeing a therapist or a life coach can help you                      and there is a lack of cultural awareness by the
        they hear, give themselves permission to be hon-           identify your purpose(s)                                        professionals who are not of color who treat black     Journal your thoughts and feelings, vent to some-
        est with themselves and seek mental health treat-                                                                          and brown communities. While there is a shift          one you can trust, watch YouTube videos and read
        ment when needed.                                      HL: You also talked about labels on Episode                         that is happening such as online therapy, direc-       articles that speak to your current challenges. You
                                                               71 Why Do You Care So Much? Stop Letting                            tory and more black mental health professionals,       can  also  find  a  community  online  of  people  you
                                                               People Hold You Back. What are some rea-                            there is still a stigma that often prevents people     can identify with, attend free support groups by the
                                                               sons you think people label themselves?                             from seeking treatment.                                Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance and the
        HL: In Episode 55 Intentional Living, you              What advice would you give someone who                                                                                     National Alliance on Mental Illness.
        discuss the importance of living on purpose.           struggles with labeling?
        What are some ways you choose to live inten-                                                                                                                                      To learn more about Fireflies Unite please visit
        tionally? What are some things people can do  People label themselves for a variety of reasons;                            HL: What are some things you think we as               their website at FirefliesUnite.com
        if they struggle living with a purpose?                I don’t think there is one reason. Sometimes                        black people can stop doing to hinder people
                                                               we label ourselves to fit in with others and oth-                   who are dealing with mental illness?
        I choose to live intentionally by identifying my       er times we accept the labels of others that can
        values, needs and being honest with myself,            stunt growth.                                                       Stop thinking we can pray mental health condi-
        and make my decisions based upon that. For                                                                                 tions away. Prayer can be a part of your mental
        instance, if I say I value my mental and physical                                                                          health treatment but it should also include a thera-
        health, do I make time to tend to those areas of                                                                           pist and sometimes a psychiatrist. Seeking mental
        my life?                                               If you are struggling with a label you have given                   health treatment does not mean you are weak or
                                                               yourself or a label someone else gave you, ask                      lack faith in God. You can pray and see a therapist
        For anyone struggling to find their purpose, I         yourself who am I without this label? Is this label                 at the same time.
        would encourage to think about the following:          hindering my growth, making me live in fear or
                                                               does it push me to work toward my goals?
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